Andrea Arru was insecure about her ability to express herself and her love to others. She was also very independent and didn’t like to rely on others.
Andrea Arru
Andrea Arru is affectionate by nature, and loves playing a decisive and central role in her life. She is a charmer who needs to be loved and is aware of her personal magnetism and the power it gives her. She will make subtle changes in herself in order to attract positive attention. She is sophisticated and pleased to savor a lifestyle she sees as a consummate art.
Andrea Arru sits in her comfortable office chair, her hands folded in her lap. She is a sober and reserved woman, but few people know the true depths of her emotions. Andrea was raised in an atmosphere of sobriety and rigor, and she quickly acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency and a strong sense of her personal dignity and worth. At work, she is skilled, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, but she lacks self confidence and personal assurance, which hinder her decision-making skills. Although she would deserve a prominent executive position, she might refuse any that are offered due to her fear of being in the limelight. Andrea is aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile and that time rewards those who are patient, which, in her case, is true. The psychological mechanisms described above are probably the result of a paternal complex. In childhood, her identity may have been too strongly attached to that of her father or a father figure, for one of the following reasons:- the bond with her father was too close,- her father was absent and/or idealized,- her father was too strict, etc.In any case, this psychological particularity can act either as a handicap or as an opportunity for the individual to overcome yourself. It will result in two groups of opposite but complementary reactions which will rule your behavior all your life:- hypersensitivity or insensitivity- intense life wish or discomfort with life- obsession or renunciation- skepticism or fanaticism- asceticism or lust- jealousy or indifference- effort or lazinessThe so-called “Saturnian” phases (at age 7, 14, 21, 28 or 29, and 35 years) will be transitional periods that give you an opportunity to resolve this complex in real life.
Andrea Arru came to feel that her insecurities led her to come across as haughty and arrogant. Her vanity was easily wounded, and she abhorred overt criticism.
Andrea Arru is sensitive and receptive and prefers to live in osmosis with her surroundings. Her individuality almost seems to be diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions which are continually washing over her, and she sometimes finds it difficult to communicate her feelings to other people or engage in any structured, analytical thought. This may stem from a misunderstanding with her teachers when she was a child. Unable to understand their disciplinary measures or authority, she may have withdrawn into herself in self-defense. It was then that she constructed her rich inner life, the part of her they could not invade, and cut many of her ties to the outside. Because she enjoyed indulging in her inner life, it may have been difficult for her to acquire an objective vision of reality. As a result, even today, she tends to create imaginary problems for herself, regardless of the objective facts outside. Although her imagination is a source of inspiration and intuition, her fluid inner structure and organization sometimes make it difficult for her to grasp the essence of her dreams and share them with other people. She is not at all combative, and this tends to hinder her efforts to fit into society and assert herself productively. She is likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but her refusal to abandon her unattainable dreams is a psychological trap she has fallen into without realizing it. She must understand that by running away from her obligations and commitments, she only increases the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once she free herself from this pernicious process, she has a great deal of potential for fulfilling herself in the outer world, either by devoting herself to some sort of social work or by cultivating her considerable artistic talents.
Andrea Arru tended to be motivated by the needs of others. When it came to difficult decisions, she was able to focus and solve problems through her gift for deduction. In crisis situations or important moments in her life, her ability to concentrate and her willingness to give her all were her strengths.
Andrea Arru is very sociable. She is instinctively in tune with others and has a need to be accepted and respected. She is tactful and diplomatic, and will sometimes swallow her personal pride in the interests of the smooth running of the group. She is also fond of harmony and order in artistic terms. As a result, she is sensitive and discerning, and will avoid anything crude and vulgar. She relationships (the couple, or a partnership) take a central role in her life.
Andrea Arru has a lively and curious intelligence, the very opposite of empty rhetoric and studiousness. She is agile and adaptable and can not only analyze difficult situations objectively but also demonstrate a profound comprehension when faced with a psychological problem.
Andrea Arru has a sensitive and affectionate nature. She seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Her relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and she has a natural sense of tact and social grace.
Andrea Arru looks out over the bustling cityscape and feels a sense of peace and security. She has a few close friends who she trusts implicitly, and feels grateful for their support. Andrea also enjoys a good, hearty meal with family and friends, and enjoys spending time outdoors hiking, biking, or simply enjoying a good book. She has a strong connection to her family, and they are a source of grounding and stability for her. Andrea is grateful for the opportunities her parents have given her, and is determined to use them to the best of her ability.
Andrea Arru looks at the job posting online and feels a bit discouraged. She’s been unemployed for over a year now and she’s starting to feel like she’s giving up on finding a good job. She’s been applying to every job she can find, but it seems like no one is really hiring. She reads the requirements for the job and is a little surprised that it’s not too demanding. She’s been working as a receptionist for the past few years and she’s starting to feel like that’s not really what she wants to do. Andrea thinks about all of the things she’s wanted to do and all of the things she’s been afraid to do. She’s always been a very creative person and she’s always been drawn to the arts, but she’s never been very good at making money from it. She’s been thinking about switching careers and becoming a painter or a sculptor, but she’s not sure if she’s ready to make that kind of change. Andrea decides to apply to the job and see what happens.
Andrea Arru was not always forthcoming with her feelings. She tended to keep her sensitive side guarded, and sexuality was a prominent part of her life. Her relationships were usually passionate, and were motivated by her desires. She found a career which placed her in contact with troubled people especially rewarding.
Andrea Arru struggles with amorous aspirations. The person she imagines as her soulmate is dazzling and has many talents and beauty. However, the gap between her ideal and reality is sometimes wide. Andrea should be careful not to confuse her romantic ideal with reality and become aware that her tendency to project may be a way of fleeing from herself.
Andrea Arru’s birth chart indicates a somewhat introverted emotional function which is influenced by the cultural values traditional to her family and social class. Because she does not always trust her emotional urges and reactions, she generally prefers to hang back and acquire some perspective before committing herself emotionally.
Andrea Arru has emotional involvement that might be the source of some dissatisfaction for her. The usual romantic behavior and the lifestyle values prevailing in this area are not really appropriate for her. As a result, she seeks few intimate emotional relationships or contacts. She tends to stay in the background and fulfill her emotional needs by sublimating. She might not attain full romantic satisfaction until she reaches middle age.
Andrea Arru looks at herself in the mirror and sees a beautiful woman. She loves her body, and she loves the way she looks. She is confident and happy, and she loves being around people. She is a consummate charmer, and she loves being around people. She craves admiration and adulation, and she dreams of becoming a star. If she finds fulfillment in love, all her worldly, psychological, and artistic qualities will thrive.
Andrea Arru enjoys making new friends and exploring new cultures. She thrives on the excitement of trying new things and enjoys the camaraderie that comes with being part of a group. She is very good at charming people who are above her in social status, and may help her climb the social ladder.
Andrea Arru is hypersensitive and tends to relive the anxieties, apprehensions, and romantic absolutes of her first love relationships, which occurred around the ages of 13-14 years or 20-21 years. She is exquisitely sensitive, but almost completely barricaded behind a layer of aloofness. She will not settle for anything less than eternal commitment, total harmony, and absolute loyalty. She is sometimes presumed to be cold, even by those close to her. She usually hides her emotional reactions or does not even allow them to reach the level of her consciousness, in an effort to protect her sensitivity, which she sees as her weak point. She is fairly vulnerable, even in the intimacy of a stable and established relationship. Usually, she will disguise her strong feelings as a kind of possessiveness or even jealousy. Certain misfortunes may arouse a negative emotional state inside her, and she feels unworthy of the love which is lavished on her. This psychological prohibition which rules over all of her desires and affects should loosen with the passage of time; likewise, her fear of approaching the other will diminish. As a result, the second part of her romantic life will be more rewarding. In any case, if you want to experience a harmonious love relationship and gratify yourself emotionally, the defense mechanisms you have elaborated to make yourself inaccessible to others will have to be dismantled. Any profound relationship will also require that you learn how to forget yourself occasionally in the other.
Andrea Arru has a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. She is emotive and hypersensitive, making her especially vulnerable emotionally, since she is sometimes overwhelmed by her feelings and affects. Although she seeks an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom she could maintain blissful, smooth relations, she is sometimes met with disillusionment. Because her rather excessive sensitivity and her need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge her judgment and discernment, so she sometimes forms extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When she meets someone, she falls under the enchantment of her dream of ideal love and cannot keep herself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, she yields to another of her characteristic urges and loses herself in the individual who is so dear to her, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find herself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, her psyche is constructed in such a way as to make her sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before she takes on any major commitments, she should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates her intense love, for she may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Her tendency to believe in her illusions may mark her as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for her to find a different object for her affections, or a form of sublimation, because she tends to be so disappointed by her great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of her imagination procure artistic refinement for her, and she love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because her sensitivity also makes it easy for her to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties her peers are struggling with, she might also find it rewarding to commit herself to social work.
Andrea Arru is a complex individual. On the outside, she seems detached and aloof, but on the inside, she is an extremely complex individual, full of contradictions. Because she sometimes feels vulnerable emotionally, she tries to control not only her own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of her partners. She aspires to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning herself and yielding to the other terrifies her. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because she is guarded and somewhat secretive, she tends to be suspicious and is especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although she is fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, she will not express her feelings unless she is subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of her emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, she is likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.
Andrea Arru ruled powerfully by her determination and vital needs. Her intellectual abilities came to the forefront when she communicated her ideal and plotted her action or strategy. She could be both logical and astute, and had gifts for theorizing, but may sometimes lack perspective.
Andrea Arru tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. Her thoughts are usually structured, and her reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
Andrea Arru is a charming person with a great ability to communicate. When it comes to competing or dealing with conflict, she may be a bit lost, but she has a gift for oratory which could be put to good use in a communication-related field or as an actor or writer.
Andrea Arru has a structured mind and penetrating intelligence, but her thought processes tend to be somewhat plodding. This slow pace may be the consequence of some failure or humiliation during her formative years. Andrea is fairly inhibited and pessimistic and tends to doubt in herself and her intellectual skills despite her undeniable gifts as a thinker. Andrea should become aware that her thought patterns and habits are the sign that she is on the brink of a really big breakthrough which will give her an understanding of the complexity of things and phenomena; however, it will take time and effort. Andrea’s mind is deep and accurate and is attracted by the essence of things and their fundamental structure. As a result, Andrea is particularly suited to the study of mathematics, architecture, engineering, or perhaps even politics. Andrea’s contribution to society will probably be most lasting and effective in the field of knowledge and expertise. Whatever career Andrea chooses, she should learn to work alone, because she tends to be uncomfortable in some surroundings. Andrea will also have to learn to conquer her impatience, because she tends to waste time agonizing over deadlines and schedules. Moreover, a lack of self-confidence could cause Andrea to be fairly conventional and respectful of time-honored ways. Instead, Andrea should find the courage to question her convictions.
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