Amy Huntley, if you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution.

Amy Huntley may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Amy Huntley has a tendency to be self-focused at times which can lead to conflict in relationships. Her impulsiveness and certainty that she is bound to succeed make her want to take charge of everything which can arouse resentment in others. She would do well to meditate on concepts of authority and individualism.

Amy Huntley has a great deal of vitality. She is always active and on the move and cannot sit still for any length of time. She rushes to act on her impulses, enthusiastic and filled with the strength of confidence in herself and her luck. Power lures her, and she is sometimes self-focused in an innocent and childlike way. Her physical and creative energy predisposes her to become a captain or leader.

To trust yourself better and gain self-assurance, the first thing you must do is learn to say yes. Once you are capable of saying yes to life, you can say no to your fears. You must learn to identify all the things you love and feel positive about, as well as all the changes you hope to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support you, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of your personality. Infantile anxieties which originated in childhood when you were helpless may be obstacles to your evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent you from confronting challenges you would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons you yield to these childhood fears so easily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to you that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of your identity. However, the more often you reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware you become of your true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced your pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for you to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside you that claims you don’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of you could undermine your vitality and force you to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, you limit your power to bring about a positive change in yourself or your life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free yourself, the first step is to free yourself from the fears which prevent you from taking full advantage of life. You can succeed if you arrange a relaxed, positive environment for yourself, establish sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, find a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which you can practice relaxation exercises.