Ali Thom seeks others in order to structure herself. She intuitively senses this need and seeks a balance between her individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return, although it sometimes eludes her. Marriage and friendship could be realms to which she is especially devoted, but they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.
Ali Thom is very sensitive and receptive, living in a state of osmosis with her surroundings. Her individuality almost seems to be diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions which are continually washing over her, and she sometimes finds it difficult to communicate her feelings to other people. This tide of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition, but her fluid inner structure and organization sometimes make it difficult for her to grasp the essence of her dreams and share them with other people. Ali Thom is not at all combative, and this tends to hinder her efforts to fit into society and assert herself productively. She is likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but her refusal to abandon her unattainable dreams is a psychological trap she has fallen into without realizing it. Ali Thom must understand that by running away from her obligations and commitments, she only increases the feelings of guilt which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once she free herself from this pernicious process, she has a great deal of potential for fulfilling herself in the outer world, either by devoting herself to some sort of social work or by cultivating her considerable artistic talents.
Ali Thom prefers to plan things out in advance, following a set of rigid models that are based on logical or moral reasons. Although you can be quite reserved with your personal feelings, you’re actually quite caring and compassionate when you let it show. People usually find you to be quite direct and upfront, but this can also be a source of irritation for you. You’re very successful in a work environment, where you thrive on working under tight deadlines and following strict guidelines. You have a natural talent for creating things that are easy to understand and use, which would make you a great scientist or high-tech designer.
Ali Thom is sensitive and perceptive. Luxuriate in tenderness and gentleness more than passion? Abhor any form of violence and disturbed by the absence of harmony? Developed a tact and diplomacy which make your relations with others smooth and easy?
Ali Thom is emotional and tends to react suddenly and excessively as soon as her sensitivity is touched. Although she feels that her independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, she is sometimes frustrated by her need to rely on her family or friends. Moreover, she does not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as her own. Likewise, she is sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if she feared that it would doom her to eternal dependency. Her ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship she had with her mother or a mother figure. Although she was dependent on them, they may have rejected her. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which her sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off her feelings of dependency, she sometimes tends to become destructive. Based on denial, her reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Ali Thom is fairly shy, reserved, and discreet when it comes to matters of the heart. Even in intimate moments, she remains modest and does not always readily express her feelings. She is sensitive and giving, wishing to be of service to those she loves. She deserves to be made as happy as she makes her partners.
Ali Thom’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Ali Thom must straddle two important principles of her personality. She is sensitive and intelligent, as well as hypersensitive and hyperemotive, which may inspire her to try to relieve others of their suffering and carry the whole world on her shoulders. The return from her dreams to reality is always traumatic for her psyche. It will be difficult for her to find fulfillment alone; aware of this, she will seek out someone who can protect her, as well as act as a guide.
Ali Thom has an ambivalent attitude to sex. This conflict makes her love life rather complex and leads to extremes which she finds difficult to handle. A negative experience or a subconscious feeling of guilt may cause her to channel her emotions into a religious or spiritual life. Maturity may alleviate these extremes, otherwise she will have to make allowances and reconcile the fulfillment of her desires with the reality of a partner as they really are.
Ali Thom may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive her to seek pleasure. Her need for romantic fulfillment may compel her to marry, because she also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that she had indeed achieved success. However, privately, she might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.
Ali Thom’s mental aptitudes make her especially good at comparing, evaluating, and weighing information. This intellectual modus operandi has enabled her to develop an innate sense of values, both artistic and ethical, as well as a remarkable ability to relate to other people. Her appreciative, conciliatory attitude makes her a skillful diplomat able to untangle conflict situations deftly and with ease. In other situations, her artistic spirit is sensitive to a wide variety of harmonies.
Ali Thom tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
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