Alessia Cara practices restraining her emotions, striving to have a strong grip on her impulses. Although it is not an easy path, she wants to be able to bear stress with patience, endurance, and stamina. More than anyone, she understands the importance of having a strong foundation in order to take effective action.
Alessia Cara is sensitive and receptive, living in a state of osmosis with her surroundings. Her individuality seems to be largely submerged by the flood of sensations and impressions constantly bombarding her, and she sometimes finds it difficult to communicate her feelings to other people or to engage in any structured, analytical thought. This may be due to a misunderstanding with her teachers when she was a child. Unable to understand their disciplinary measures or authority, she may have withdrawn into herself in self-defense, developing her rich inner life while cutting many of her ties to the outside. Because she enjoyed indulging in her inner life, it may have been difficult for her to acquire an objective vision of reality. As a result, even today, she tends to create imaginary problems for herself, regardless of the objective facts outside. Although her imagination is a source of inspiration and intuition, her fluid inner structure and organization sometimes make it difficult for her to grasp the essence of her dreams and share them with other people. She is not at all combative, and this tends to hinder her efforts to fit into society and assert herself productively. She is likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but her refusal to abandon her unattainable dreams is a psychological trap she has fallen into without realizing it. She must understand that by running away from her obligations and commitments, she only increases the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once she frees herself from this pernicious process, she has a great deal of potential for fulfilling herself in the outer world, either by devoting herself to some sort of social work or by cultivating her considerable artistic talents.
Alessia Cara feels fulfilled when she has intellectual stimulation. She is always on the move in search of new contacts, and is curious about many different subjects. She enjoys conversation and communication, and hopes to be admired for her talent and wit. Due to her wide variety of interests, however, she can be something of a dilettante, and her thinking may sometimes lack discipline.
Alessia Cara hides her sensitivity behind a cool exterior. She is conservative, respectful of tradition and convention, and likes to follow the rules. Because she needs stability to alleviate her feelings of frustration and sometimes emotional dependency, she has great faith in contracts which seal relationships. Her ties to her past are fairly strong. They are a source of reassurance and safety, because her parents likely gave her a lot.
Because you developed your own personality and identity early on, you quickly grew to be an original and independent person. You were able to challenge the education and values you received from your family and class tradition, and you were able to forge a strong, original personality and philosophy. Your relationships are usually free of conflict, because you are able to reconcile your need for independence with your desire for affection. However, your partners should be open and lively people, able to keep pace with you in your rapid evolution. You have an inspiring and extremely lively wit, and a brisk interest in the future, technological progress, and new lifestyles. You would be especially successful in communications-related careers like journalism, film, TV, radio, and advertising. Although you are an individualist, you also have a powerful desire to contribute to the evolution of society and better its development.
Alessia Cara has a complicated relationship with her emotions and sexual desires. She has a strong instinct to survive and to protect those she cares for, but this can often lead to her being a difficult person to be around. She can be passionate and intense, but this can also lead to her feeling overwhelmed. Her sexuality is very important to her, and she often experiences a great deal of pleasure and ecstasy from her relationships. However, she is also prone to feeling guilt and aggressiveness, which can cause problems in her relationships.
Alessia Cara enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of her expression. She is a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of her affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. She may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.
Alessia Cara’s birth chart indicates that she has an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Alessia Cara is carefree, dreamy, and eccentric. She is eminently adaptable and easygoing, but hardly reliable, because she lacks a sense of logic. Her appetite for change and novelty makes her somewhat unfitted for a confining committed life. Only her family, and possibly children, if she chooses to have them, will be able to ground her to any real degree.
Alessia Cara was interested in verbal and social exchanges more than actual lovemaking. She enjoyed flirting and had fun with love, rather than becoming passionately engaged. Because she avoided intense passion, she tended to flutter from one good-looking face to the next, enjoying her ability to charm. She believed that playing the game of love this way had few serious consequences.
Alessia Cara has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of her main purposes in life. Her personal charm and magnetism give her nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of her well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of her desires. Due to her impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, her approach to members of the other sex may sometimes lack delicacy.
Alessia Cara may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate impulses which drive her to seek pleasure. Her need for romantic fulfillment may compel her to marry, because she also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that she had indeed achieved success. However, privately, she might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, she might deny the commitments that her optimism and expansiveness made her rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting her romantic nature against the prerogatives of her career.
Alessia Cara has an intellect that is sensitive, acute, intuitive, and people-oriented. Her memory and imagination are combined with her shrewdness, making her a gifted project manager, businesswoman, or scholar of history or literature.