If Aleisha Allen really wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution. Her insatiable appetites, her stubbornness, her grimness, and her reluctance to change are all potential inhibitors to her growth.
You sometimes struggle to reconcile your desire for social and professional success with your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas, but often find it difficult to balance their demands on you. Sometimes it feels like you will never be able to find a balance. However, no promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only fooling yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.
Aleisha Allen may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.
Aleisha Allen tries to accumulate wealth and social power, but she sometimes betrays a lack of toleration for other people’s belief systems and values. Although she trusts her own talent for business, finance, and investments thoroughly, she is liable to make some errors in judgment. Because she identifies so strongly with her own individual habits and work routines and isn’t as keen to learn from others, she may waste her energy at times.
As a result of your great ambitions, Aleisha Allen is fairly organized. She is able to work long and hard to achieve her goals and elaborates fairly rigid strategies to protect herself against any foreseeable obstacles. She is so absorbed in her business she does not always realize that she tends to be somewhat peremptory with the people around her and that she might do well to soften her tone and be more tactful at times. Her friendships seem stifling and superfluous to her, and she is sometimes tormented by inner conflict when she is forced to submit to another’s will. To succeed, Aleisha Allen works to be less dogmatic. Trust in herself and other people and flexibility.
Aleisha Allen is rather obstinate, stubborn, and impervious to outside influences. Although her determination is an asset in bringing plans and projects to completion, it may also arouse bitter hostility against her. To fit in best, she considers working on her flexibility and diplomacy.
Aleisha Allen has deeply anchored emotional needs. Invariably, she tries to revive these sensations from her personal history, clinging to the security provided by the repetition of a feeling which produced a positive effect in the past. Her desire for possession (tangible or emotional) could become a problem, because she may fixate on an object which is negative or bad for her. She will do well to make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious negative conditioning which may be related to her childhood.
Aleisha Allen’s mental processes are lightning quick. As a result, she tends to jump to conclusions and make immediate decisions before she knows all the facts. This rash and impetuous behavior could cause communications problems and arouse needless opposition in others. Her mind is generally too busy with the immediate future to take time for careful analysis and reflection. She would do well to slow down and organize herself before she speaks. However, the same behavior has a positive side. It can be of great use to her in rushed or quickly changing work situations, which require last-minute, immediate decisions.
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