What does AJ Lee’s psychology tell us about them?

AJ Lee searched for stability. She wanted to find a firm, unchanging structure for her life. But her efforts to achieve this ideal were often vain, because unconsciously, she was also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time she reached what she believed to be a good balance, she realized she wanted something entirely different. She should become aware that the concepts of stability and balance were difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.

AJ Lee was born under a sign of great harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes. This has been beneficial for her in her personal relationships, as she has been able to be comfortable with herself, and her peers have not felt the need to project their own conflicts onto her.

AJ Lee has a taste for luxury and magnificence, for a dazzling social life and a distinguished career. When things are going well for her, she tends to think of herself as the center of the universe, an attitude which those close to her do not always appreciate. Although she is quite likely to succeed in her ambition to become wealthy and popular and lead a remarkable life in the outer world, her lack of moderation and overweening self-confidence expose her to some danger. Her exaggerated optimism could create difficulties by causing her to make errors in judgment.

AJ Lee is sober and rather reserved, and may even strike people as harsh and austere at times. Perhaps she was raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety, and, as a result, grew up very fast. She has acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency, tends to be rather uncompromising, and has a touchy sense of her personal dignity and worth. It is almost as though she was fighting an inner battle with her father or a father figure. The psychological models she received from her father or a father figure as a result of her interaction and her own interaction with authority may not have played a major role in shaping her relationships with the outer world and society. She may thus have been forced to compensate for this lack with individual determination. As a result, although she is skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, a lack of self-confidence and personal assurance sometimes makes her timid and hesitant. She sometimes feels as though she is only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. She tends to be far too critical of herself and rarely feels satisfied that she is living up to her ideal. These unnecessary guilt feelings may lead her to turn down the prominent career positions for which she is fully qualified. She is aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile and that time rewards those who know how to be patient and persistent, like her.

AJ Lee is an individualist who is convinced that the most important values in life are freedom and independence. She has thrown off what she perceives as the conventions and customs of her social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Her passionate convictions sometimes trouble her relationships, as she may be an uncompromising partner. AJ Lee would do well to learn to recognize her own limitations and accept the responsibilities she has to other people, or she is liable to find herself continually embroiled in conflicting relationships. The roots of her somewhat extreme behavior probably lie in her relationship with her father or her teachers in childhood and adolescence. For one reason or another, AJ Lee may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with her father, in the same way as she now refuses to adopt any values related to convention, tradition, or widespread usage. In every important life decision she makes as an adult, AJ Lee relies on herself to elaborate the appropriate behavior, and the limits she must impose on her desires in relation to reality and the law.

AJ Lee is winning and attractive. She has an appetite for intense emotional experiences, especially in terms of her relationships. Enjoying the power of her personal appeal, she easily controls her emotions and only rarely reveals the true depth of her feelings. Because her instincts take precedence over her sensitivity, she is capable of becoming jealous, possessive, and even rather harsh, without meaning to. More of a flirt than a voluptuary, she is attentive to desire. As a result, her love life will sometimes be casual and complicated.

AJ Lee maintains strong ties with her past, and it often seems difficult for her to open her heart to new people. Her love affairs might exist on the surface level, because her lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for her to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.

AJ Lee has a sensitive personality. She may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. She is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in her behavior may be explained by emotional problems she may have experienced in infancy: her mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.

AJ Lee is looking for the ideal love and tends to idealize her friends and lovers. A bizarre character, she may prefer to dream of her soulmate instead of making love to one; she is more in love with the idea of love than anything else. Her idealism may hide a fear of truly committing herself to a relationship; she tries to intellectualize everything. In time, two options will seem clear to her: an amorous friendship based on shared ideas and intellectual exchange, or an open relationship, free of all constraints except mutual respect.

AJ Lee’s birth chart indicates that she has an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, AJ Lee is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

AJ Lee is attractive. She may be so overcome by her lustful urges that she loses all sense of proportion. A passionate creature, AJ Lee will lead a tormented love life. After a few failures, she should find the right match – that is, a tolerant person who understands her and helps her rise above her instincts.

AJ Lee found herself entangled in unlikely or at the least complicated emotional situations because she tended to be naive and idealistic about love. In many cases, she was irresistibly attracted to someone who was not at all right for her or whose aspirations were diametrically opposed to her. If she married, her relationship would often be conflicting.

AJ Lee has the passionate and demanding nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of her main purposes in life. Her personal charm and magnetism are compellingly seductive; unfortunately, her attempts at conquest do not always lead to the fulfillment and satisfaction of her desires. Due to her impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, her approach to those she is attracted to may sometimes lack tact and delicacy. As a result of the foregoing, it may be somewhat difficult for her to maintain stable and harmonious relationships. Indeed, her emotional behavior is subject to a conflict between her quest for love and her need to satisfy her lust. Her outpourings of affection and her need to be loved in return sometimes create complicated situations in which lust may be confused with love, or love may exist without lust, and she may feel unrequited or unfulfilled. This inner contradiction is a sign of her tendency to derive pleasure from suffering – either her own or that of her partner. The relationship thus becomes the setting for a sort of power struggle, weakening it as a source of psychological equilibrium. Nevertheless, she could sublimate this difficulty through artistic expression.

AJ Lee is cautious and reserved by nature. This can sometimes lead her to hesitate when it comes to opening up and expressing her emotions, as she has learned that even the most harmonious relationships require some compromise. For AJ Lee, “good fences make good neighbors,” and well-marked boundaries can prevent future suffering. Thus, when she is attracted to a partner, she will privately engage in a careful analysis of their personality and life story, endeavoring to know them profoundly. In addition, she has a profound affinity for the arts, particularly music, literature, painting, and graphic arts. This could lead her to any career that is balanced, order-oriented, and practical.

AJ Lee has a rather irrational mind and a voracious intellect, which is usually subject to the rule of her prolific imagination. Although she is likely to have flashes of intuition which may prove to be correct, her thought processes are sometimes messy and confused. Her mind, which is oriented in many different directions at the same time, is ruled by her emotions and feelings. In tune with psychic and parapsychic phenomena, her thinking requires only the adjunct of structure to rise from the level of a blurry, uncertain, undifferentiated mass to that of a really significant vision with a grip on the real world.

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