If you want to improve yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These might be your perfectionism, your tendency to hyperfocus on minutiae, your over intellectualization, or your comfort with a constant state of worry.

Aida Rodriguez sometimes feels a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no promotion will really satisfy her if she neglects her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Aida Rodriguez sometimes sets unrealistic goals for herself and tends to be impractical. These tendencies are particularly evident when it comes to her emotional relationships. In the beginning, she will idealize the potential partner, one who will put her on a pedestal, but then she may try to dodge commitment. In other life pursuits, she tends to rush into poorly thought-out activities. If she does not alter these tendencies, life will step in to make her slow down and induce her to organize herself with more patience and forethought.