Adhemz practices restraining their emotional impulses, controlling them, and enduring strains. Although it is not an easy apprenticeship, they want to be able to bear strain with patience, endurance, and stamina. More than anyone else, they are aware of the need for a solid and stable foundation as a prerequisite to any effective action.
At the moment of your birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This is a sign of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes, which is beneficial. It is the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms which may be said to compose the personality. You thus enjoy a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to you, and it is likely that they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you were and are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images your ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.
Adhemz does not always feel in tune with society’s rules and conventions. The mask of sociability most well-adapted people wear is difficult for Adhemz to assume, and it is hard for Adhemz to act out the roles expected of her as a normal member of the community. The usual social values and rewards, like money, respect, and prestige, only mildly interest Adhemz. Her refusal or inability to play the social game may make it hard for her to find a job, which may have negative consequences on her financial and legal status. Reluctant and unwilling to adapt to the demands of social life, Adhemz sometimes unwittingly makes mistakes when a new project is in the planning stages. For example, she may leave gaps in a job application, botch up an interview with a prospective employer, or make a big mistake when bidding for a contract. But her financial difficulties may clear up when her emotional ones do.
Adhemz values freedom and independence above all else. To ensure that their private life expresses these values, Adhemz expends a great deal of energy avoiding any profound involvement with a relationship. As a result, they might intellectualize their emotions and feelings and feel as though they can live more easily on friendship than on love. Socially-minded but idealistic, Adhemz almost certainly feels an affinity with the ideals of some social reform movement. Their imagination looks to the future.
Adhemz hides their sensitivity behind a cool exterior. They are conservative, respectful of tradition and convention, and like to follow the rules. Because they need stability to alleviate their feelings of frustration and sometimes emotional dependency, they have great faith in contracts which seal relationships. Their ties to their past are fairly strong. They are a source of reassurance and safety, because their parents likely gave them a lot.
Adhemz is emotional and tends to react suddenly and excessively as soon as her sensitivity is touched. Although she feels that her independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, she is sometimes frustrated by her need to rely on her family or friends. Moreover, she does not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as her own. Likewise, she is sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if she feared that it would doom her to eternal dependency. Her ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship she had with her mother or a mother figure. Although she was dependent on them, they may have rejected her. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which her sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off her feelings of dependency, she tends to become destructive. Based on denial, her reactions are sometimes fierce, impulsive, and excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Adhemz is sensitive to the ways in which her dreams and imaginings reflect her innermost thoughts and feelings, but can be easily misled when it comes to interpreting reality. Her psychic gifts provide her with a wealth of creativity and inspiration, but it can be difficult for her to find a way to market her abilities in a practical way. In a relationship, Adhemz is highly romantic and often sees the best in people, which can lead to disappointment when they eventually fail to live up to her expectations.
Adhemz tends to keep a lot of herself hidden, and she’s often very sensitive. She’s interested in intense emotions, both in herself and in others. Sexuality is a important part of her life, and her relationships are usually passionate because she’s motivated by her own desires. She’d really enjoy working in a career that would allow her to get to know troubled people on a deeper level.
Adhemz enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of her expression. She is a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of her affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. She may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.
Adhemz’s birth chart indicates a somewhat introverted emotional function which is influenced by the cultural values traditional to his family and social class. Because he does not always trust his emotional urges and reactions, he generally prefers to hang back and acquire some perspective before committing himself emotionally.
Adhemz’s emotional involvement might be the source of some dissatisfaction for him. The usual romantic behavior and the lifestyle values prevailing in this area are not really appropriate for him. As a result, he seeks few intimate emotional relationships or contacts. He tends to stay in the background and fulfill his emotional needs by sublimating. He might not attain full romantic satisfaction until he reaches middle age.
Adhemz is bubbly, breezy, and attractive, but frivolous. She will not settle down readily. Although to protect herself from her own unconscious she needs the support and structure a stable, solid mate would provide, she is likely to prefer someone just as unstructured as she is – perhaps a younger person… Unless her need to live an original lifestyle drives her to meet an extraordinary individual with whom she develops a relationship characterized more by friendship than love. Together, they may develop a fulfilling and exciting intellectual life.
Adhemz has a certain innocent charm. Without making any special efforts, she is often solicited and has a number of pleasurable little romances. Fortunately, she is fairly tolerant, because she tends to be attracted to young people who may not be especially loyal or serious. It is better that she not rely on them.
Adhemz is somewhat plodding but realistic and pragmatic. Because Adhemz is chiefly preoccupied with the practical aspects of things, Adhemz is especially apt to develop more efficient production concepts. Although Adhemz’s good judgment and common sense provide Adhemz with an excellent ability to handle the tangible world, Adhemz’s thought processes might be relatively impervious to abstract concepts and spiritual awakenings.
Adhemz expresses their thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. They are fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, they look forward to a bright future but are sometimes subjective and reckless.
Adhemz has a lively and agile spirit. She is curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences without either dogmatism or prejudice. As a result of the liveliness of her mind, she tends to have an opinion on every subject, but she does not always have the patience or perspective necessary to examine a subject and gain in-depth knowledge of it. She enjoys manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses herself with witty remarks, satire, and controversy. If she learned to control her flow of words better and elaborate her thoughts more, she might make a talented communicator. Because she is often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform her ideas, she is sometimes misunderstood. She is often blind to the rashness of her judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around her. If she were to succeed in disciplining her mind somewhat, she would have innumerable opportunities to apply her communications skills to a great career. However, she would do well to be careful of her nerves.
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