Adeptthebest seems resigned to her fate, including her insecurity. Actually, she is fairly introverted and withdrawn, trying to make sense out of her inner confusion and fathom her inner depths.
The personality and behavior of someone with a contradiction between masculine and feminine archetypes governing their psyche is liable to be disrupted. Because their sensitivity is in conflict with their determination, their attitude and performance may be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, they have the feeling they have to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging their yearnings and fulfilling their ambitions. However, their unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of their conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage their plans. In their relationships, the images they build up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, also grates on their nerves. They find it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.
Adeptthebest has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for them to gain access to this part of themselves. They are confident in themselves and life but may tend to be nonchalant. Sometimes they need a little stimulation to get themselves rolling and take some initiative. Their optimism and inner certainty do not always drive them to give their utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills they possess are an advantage as well as a handicap. They make use of their theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for them would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.
Adeptthebest searches for meaning in life by exploring different belief systems. Their youth and wanderlust may have drawn them to physical and mental freedom, which they need to find in order to have a purpose in life. They are drawn to philosophy due to its faraway appeal and the potential for travel as a means of exploration.
The Adeptthebest’s intellect is lively, agile, and sensitive. However, it does not always avail itself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although it enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, its thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. It is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste its nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Moreover, its feelings sometimes blur its objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause it to make errors in judgment.
Adeptthebest has a sensitive and affectionate nature. They seek tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Their relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and they have a natural sense of tact and social grace.
Adeptthebest has a sensitive personality. They may jump to conclusions which could disrupt relationships as well as career plans. They are subject to cyclical energy flows and go from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in their behavior may be explained by emotional problems they may have experienced in infancy: their mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Although your demeanor is cool and distant, you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. It is difficult for your inner self to be detached from this past life, and you sometimes have trouble reconciling the image you have of yourself as an adult with the one you acquired back then. The idea you have of yourself as an individual is related to the image your parents projected onto you as a child. Nevertheless, the past is history, and you are now an adult. It should be easy for you to rid yourself of these phantoms through self-work. You have the ability to overcome your mistakes and great endurance and will power to achieve your goals. However, you must not repress your sensitivity in order to succeed.
Adeptthebest resents having to impose limitations on themselves, and they may sometimes try to dodge obligations and commitments. The obstacles and hindrances reality places on their path to personal and social development tend to depress them. They sometimes brood bitterly about the frustrations to their self-fulfillment and might have a fairly pessimistic vision of society and its possibilities.
Adeptthebest regards sexuality as an important part of their life, and their relationships are most often determined by their instincts. If they have a relationship that is exclusively satisfying sexually, however, they might feel frustration, because they are driven by a kind of unconscious guilt to seek fulfillment for their heart and soul as well. They tend to be a rather excessive and tormented partner, who often re-evaluates the bonds that connect them to their partners.
The Adeptthebest is a sensitive person who often sacrifices their own interests to help others. They are a romantic as well as an idealist, and have trouble expressing their feelings clearly. Nevertheless, they are capable of devoting themselves entirely to the person they love. They have a tendency to daydream and become lost in themselves.
The Adeptthebest birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of their emotional urges and somewhat wary of their feelings, they try to rid themselves of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
As a result of this conflict between the conscious, active, masculine principle of your psyche and the unconscious, passive, feminine principle, you are perpetually subject to tension. You are hesitant and impressionable, and your behavior vacillates between enthusiasm and despair, between shyness and outrageousness, and between passion and indifference. Your love life tends to be a jumble of baroque and eccentric affections which soon dissolve, leaving you feeling baffled and grieving. Unable to refuse when someone appeals to your compassion, you may be gobbled up or allow yourself to be seduced. Your happiness will depend on the one you meet, unless you free yourself through artistic, mystical, or psychic sublimation. But since you are fairly lucky, you may marry a loyal and brilliant companion who really loves you. Unfortunately, circumstances may then make married life unstable.
Adeptthebest believes that love is a high-minded ideal. It can be found in a fairly young or naive person, but he is hardly realistic about the situation. The ideal companion for Adeptthebest could easily become a staid person with prosaic ideas and dull, old-fashioned tastes. The type of marriage that would suit Adeptthebest would be one based on friendship or a fortunate coincidence of yearnings.
Adeptthebest has an ardent and amorous character that enlivens their relationships with the other sex. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, they are often more in love with the idea of love than with their partners. As a result, their love life may be subject to some instability. They are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate them. Love is often a matter of luck with them. Even when a relationship falls apart, they do not see the experience as a failure or a tragedy; instead, they seem to learn valuable lessons from their mistakes. Psychologically, their emotion contributes positively and efficiently to their evolution. From another standpoint, their acute sensitivity predisposes them to original and subtle tastes; they are so receptive to beauty and attached to the concepts of truth and balance that they may all combine to yield remarkable creative potential.
Adeptthebest has a great emotional ideal, full of subtlety and tenderness. However, they tend to be overwhelmed by their imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. Their romantic and trusting nature may make them vulnerable. Although they strive to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, they sometimes experience painful disappointments. Their artistic delicacy and refinement provide them with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. They are likely to be a gifted poet.
You are a complex individual, full of contradictions. Because you sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.
An Adeptthebest is a flexible individual who has progressive, inventive, and sometimes utopian ideas. They usually relate to human or social problems. They always strive to be in the vanguard, creating a better world for the future.
The Adeptthebest observes the way in which you express your thoughts and ideas carefully, but with a relative lack of spontaneity. The Adeptthebest observes that you are rather introverted and look inside yourself for the solutions to the problems you encounter in life. The Adeptthebest suspects that this is because you mistrust customary thought patterns, and so your opinion is usually highly personal.
The Adeptthebest generally prefers to stay isolated from others. This is partly because they are oriented inward, and partly because they find it difficult to communicate their complex inner thoughts. They often feel misunderstood, and find it difficult to share their thoughts in a way that others can understand.
Adeptthebest has a lively and agile spirit. They are curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences without either dogmatism or prejudice. As a result of the liveliness of their mind, they tend to have an opinion on every subject, but they do not always have the patience or perspective necessary to examine a subject and gain in-depth knowledge of it. They enjoy manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses themselves with witty remarks, satire, and controversy. If they learned to control their flow of words better and elaborate their thoughts more, they might make a talented communicator. Because they are often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform their ideas, they are sometimes misunderstood. They are often blind to the rashness of their judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around them. If they were to succeed in disciplining their mind somewhat, they would have innumerable opportunities to apply their communications skills to a great career. However, they would do well to be careful of their nerves.
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