Aberjhani searches for stability. She wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for her life. But her efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, she is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time she reaches what she believes to be a good balance, she realizes she wants something entirely different. Aberjhani should become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.

You have a paternal complex and, as a result, some trouble finding your identity. Perhaps your father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during your childhood, which deprived you of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because you might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to you as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with your evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber your mind or inhibit your developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for you to assert yourself, and you tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because your authoritarian urges are mainly directed at yourself rather than others, you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself severely, and sometimes punishes yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

Aberjhani enjoys physical and mental freedom. His youth and home may have been of the rootless, wandering type, which has given him a taste for movement and independence. He needs to be aware that his life has a purpose and hunt for it in various belief systems, both traditional and new age. In fact, Aberjhani has an unmistakable gift for philosophy. The faraway appeals to him, and travel is likely to be an important aspect of his life.

Aberjhani has a sensitive and affectionate nature. She seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Her relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and she has a natural sense of tact and social grace.

Aberjhani has a sensitive nature. Although he may sometimes have trouble controlling his emotional reactions, they are nevertheless a source of vital energy for a constructive passion and may make an extremely positive contribution to his career. In relations with other people, Aberjhani is quite friendly; he willingly reaches out to people and knows how to listen to their desires and their problems.

Although you appear to be cool and distant, you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and your refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. You may have suffered rejection in your infancy, and, as a result, lacked the parental love which is essential to the cohesion of a personality and identity. In order to feel secure, and to protect yourself from ever suffering rejection or abandonment again, you withdrew into yourself and developed your aloofness as a defense mechanism. When you finally let down your defenses and allow yourself to express your feelings, you tend to become impassioned and exalted. You are fairly introverted and egocentric and have a powerful sense of your own identity.

Aberjhani resents having to impose limitations on themselves, and may sometimes try to dodge obligations and commitments. The obstacles and hindrances reality places on their path to personal and social development tend to depress them. They sometimes brood bitterly about the frustrations to their self-fulfillment and might have a fairly pessimistic vision of society and its possibilities.

Because you developed your individuality early in life, you quickly developed an original and independent identity. Your first taste of liberty may have led you to challenge the education and values you received from family and class tradition, and you were able to forge a strong, original personality and philosophy. Your relationships are usually free of conflict, because you are able to reconcile your need for independence with your desire for affection. However, your partners should be open and lively people, able to keep pace with you in your rapid evolution. You have an inspired and extremely lively wit and a brisk interest in the future, technological progress, and new lifestyles. You would be especially successful in communications-related careers like journalism, film, TV, radio, and advertising. Although you are an individualist, you have a powerful desire to contribute to the evolution of society and better its development.

Aberjhani is a complicated relationship partner. He has a sensitivity and emotions which sometimes conflict with his instincts. This inner discord makes him a fairly complicated person to be around. Aberjhani’s behavior can strike others as mysterious or baffling. Sexuality is an important part of Aberjhani’s life and his relationships are often motivated by his desires. Nevertheless, due to his unconscious inner battle, Aberjhani does not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling his emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of his instincts, passion may overwhelm him and drag him into situations he cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.

Aberjhani has fairly lofty amorous aspirations. The soulmate she imagines for herself is brilliant and dazzling with an array of talents and beauty. However, the gap between her splendid ideal and reality is sometimes wide. She should be careful not to confuse her romantic ideal with reality and become aware that her tendency to project may be a way of fleeing from herself.

Aberjhani’s birth chart indicates that they have an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of their emotional urges and somewhat wary of their feelings, Aberjhani tries to rid themselves of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

According to the foregoing, it appears that Aberjhani pulls you in several different directions at once. Your need for liberty conflicts with a hunger for security and affection; your natural selfishness battles your altruism. As a result, your mood may be somewhat whimsical and wayward; your youth was almost certainly wayward. Once you settle down, you will develop a great love for your family, especially for children, if you choose to have them. You will be tolerant and easygoing. To thrive, you need to feel like you can maintain your free-spiritedness.

Aberjhani is driven by a need for admiration, and their romantic involvement is sometimes dictated by their vanity or even by their pride. They need a partner they can be proud of, who will respect and adore them. Nevertheless, their marriage or long-term relationship will be very rewarding, potentially complementing their rise on the social or career ladder.

Aberjhani has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of Aberjhani’s main purposes in life. Aberjhani’s personal charm and magnetism give Aberjhani nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of Aberjhani’s well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of Aberjhani’s desires. Due to Aberjhani’s impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, Aberjhani’s approach to members of the other sex may sometimes lack delicacy.

Aberjhani is cautious and reserved, sometimes unwilling to open up to others if they are not sure of being accepted. They will always hang back somewhat from their emotional urges, parceling out their expressions of affection, because they have learned – sometimes at their expense – that even the most harmonious relationships require some compromise. For them, “good fences make good neighbours,” and well-marked boundaries can prevent future suffering. Thus, even when they are in love, they remain fairly circumspect. When they find themselves attracted to a partner, they privately engage in a careful analysis of their personality and life story, endeavoring to know them profoundly, to see whether they are likely to be able to share their life and future with them. As a result of their sensitivity, they have a profound affinity for all of the arts. Music, literature, painting, and graphic arts are likely to enrich their existence and make it pleasant. They could progress in any career in which balance, order, and practicality predominate.

You are attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Your greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although you merge your ego entirely into the couple, you are likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If your partner charms and captivates you long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with you; otherwise, you are likely to yield to your need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for you.

Midlife may be a turning point for you from this point of view. Your contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Your behavior enables you to remain aloof, to commit yourself only halfway without consciously admitting it to yourself, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when you lose interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps you from forming stable relationships. Indeed, you are tormented by the struggle between your undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, your romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by your conviction that your partner has become an obstacle to your individual progress. Because you think of love as a restraint, you may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. As an ascetic, you will try to deflect the love function from its natural target and use the energy and bliss it generates for other purposes, the process psychologists call sublimation. However, you are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires you to initiate a change in your behavior.

Aberjhani’s intellect is simultaneously subjective and sensitive, acute and intuitive, always practical and deeply rooted in human experience. It predisposes him to a people-oriented activity, with his memory and imagination combined with his shrewdness. He would be a gifted project manager, businesswoman, or scholar of history or literature.