Xenon experiences its inner life as a process of growth and maturation, nurtured by its involvement with others and the positive and negative encounters this generates.
Xenon is a social being oriented toward other people, whose personal interests often mingle with those of their associates or those of the group to which they belong. Xenon is motivated by a need to work in common with other people and to share life’s pleasures and pain. Xenon’s commitments to other people are of paramount importance to Xenon’s personal development. This dependence may present difficulties with individual self-assertion and make it hard for Xenon to make decisions alone. If Xenon wants to achieve inner equilibrium, Xenon must behave in such a way that Xenon’s actions yield benefits to others as well as themselves.
Xenon is attracted to interpersonal activities, but their significant need for inner security stands in the way of their overtures to others. Since Xenon is highly receptive to other people’s inner natures, they seek tight bonds with others. Xenon unconsciously needs their psychological support in their quest for themselves. Were they to evaluate their psychological development, they would place more value upon human warmth, intimacy, and the need to share than on intellectual understanding or personal freedom of expression.
Xenon approaches life pragmatically, and even her feelings are based on rational, tangible evidence. She bases her judgements on past experience and is prone to skepticism. A hard worker, she takes pride in her own endeavors and has a personal concept of her productivity. Her possessions help her assert herself as an individual and act as an antidote to any feelings of insecurity. As a result, material accomplishments may preoccupy her more than either love as a passion or intellectual or philosophical considerations. Nevertheless, she becomes attached to anything which offers her certainty.
Xenon is aware of a lack of confidence in himself and in life. Prone to apathy, as if deprived of optimism and cheerfulness at some time, he may often be discouraged by the strains of living. This reluctance to accept the challenges of existence, which he may perceive as a major problem, may be the result of a self-image which is elusive or flawed. Perhaps, as a child, he was not given the means to develop an ideal image due to the lack of an appropriate role model or caregiver. As a result, he is unable to move himself toward an improved, more positive disposition. He may reject any challenge that would enable him to surpass his current self, or accept it only after long meditation. Steeped in the awareness of his problem, he may be tormented and wish to change. Vigorous physical exercise and an effort to visualize an admirable figure would be beneficial to him, as well as a diet that includes vitality-bolstering vitamins and protein.
Although you may not necessarily notice the fact about yourself because you are so deeply involved in actions, feelings, or material concerns, you sometimes lack sound judgment. This impairment arises from a difficulty in obtaining perspective on yourself and your life. You may be puzzled by your troubled relations with others. You must make an effort to detach yourself from your personal reaction and observe it from an objective, more distant standpoint. If not, you are likely to find yourself under stress or pressure because you did not give enough prior thought to tactics and strategy. You may also experience dissatisfaction in your intimate relationships because you might struggle to get in sync with others. You give little time or respect to anyone you see as too “intellectual,” because you resist adapting to new ideas and viewpoints. In fact, an idea that rubs you the wrong way mentally and/or emotionally may elicit an explosive reaction. Self-analysis can be challenging for you and you tend to refuse to develop a solid, permanent idea of yourself – and this plays a lot of tricks on you.
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