What does Toby Dundas’s psychology tell us about them?

Toby Dundas needs others in order to structure himself. Intuitively sensing this need, he seeks a balance between his individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return, although it sometimes eludes him. Marriage and friendship could be realms to which he is especially devoted, but they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.

Toby Dundas has a paternal complex, which causes some trouble in finding his identity. Because he lacked a father figure during his childhood, Toby Dundas was forced to find his own system in order to grow. This system was quite useful to him as a child, but it has now settled in to a degree that it interferes with his evolution. Toby Dundas’ psychological defense mechanisms and crutches were once useful, but now they encumber his mind or inhibit his developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for Toby Dundas to assert himself and he tends to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because Toby Dundas’ authoritarian urges are mainly directed at himself, he sometimes feels guilty about his behavior. He judges himself severely, and sometimes punishes himself by setting difficult tasks for himself. Gradually, Toby Dundas should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

Toby Dundas is affectionate by nature, and love plays a decisive and central role in his life. He is a charmer who needs to love and be loved. Aware of his personal magnetism and the power it gives him, Toby will make subtle changes in himself in order to attract positive attention. He is sophisticated and pleased to savor a lifestyle he sees as a consummate art.

You may be subject to mood swings, going from phases of frenzy combined with a feeling of omnipotence and exaltation to phases of apathy and inertia. During your “highs,” your behavior is vigorous and dynamic, but it is also likely to be somewhat excessive. These periods tend to be interspersed with “lows,” phases of sluggishness and inhibition, which compensate for your immense need to assert yourself as an individual. However, in order to find a way out of this vicious cycle, you need to understand that the source of your attitudes and behavior is an unconscious desire for power. We suggest that you meditate upon power, skills, mastery, challenge, desire, and need, your brothers (or brother substitutes, such as friends, cousins, or classmates) – who are key figures – and your adversaries. This should enlighten you. Of course, once you have a clear awareness of your career ambitions and profound desires, you are sure to have plenty of energy to accomplish them.

Toby Dundas values freedom and independence above all else. To ensure that his private life expresses these values, Toby tends to be skittish when it comes to any profound involvement in a relationship. As a consequence, he might intellectualize his emotions and feelings and feel as though he can live more easily on friendship than on love. Extremely socially-minded but idealistic, Toby almost certainly feels an affinity with the ideals of some social reform movement. His imagination looks to the future.

You are an expansive individual who is communicative and affable. Indeed, some people find you generous almost to a fault! You give of yourself and your resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when you are self-focused. You react instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and are prone to misjudge. As a result, your everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, you sense a conflict between your social life and your family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill yourself in both spheres at the same time. Your attitude toward your private life may inhibit your ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on your private life. You should be careful not to project your personal problems onto your partner. If, instead, the two of you analyzed the problem, you might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.

Toby Dundas is emotional and tends to react suddenly and excessively as soon as his sensitivity is touched. Although he feels that his independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, he is sometimes frustrated by his need to rely on his family or friends. Moreover, he does not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as his own. Likewise, he is sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if he feared that it would doom him to eternal dependency. His ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship he had with his mother or a mother figure. Although he was dependent on them, they may have rejected him. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which his sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off his feelings of dependency, he sometimes tends to become destructive. Based on denial, his reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.

Toby Dundas likes to keep hidden aspects of people, their secrets and unspoken motivations, and finds a rewarding career in working with troubled people.

Toby Dundas has a sensual and affectionate nature which is sensitive to physical attraction. This type of sensitivity, combined with his productive urges, may be expressed in an artistic form. As for his feelings, they are usually slow to take root. But once he is conquered by love, he forms a deep and lasting bond. Although he is loyal, he may also display a tendency to be somewhat possessive.

Toby Dundas’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Toby distrusts his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, so he tries to rid himself of all partiality and get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

Toby Dundas has a contradictory and somewhat enigmatic nature. He is both realistic and idealistic and does not always succeed in making his aspirations tangible accomplishments, though he certainly tries. For example, his taste for liberty usually acts as an obstacle rather than a true dynamic force. Likewise, in his relationships, he tends to fabricate illusions but may suddenly sober up next to a person he will find dull and feel trapped in a routine. This contradiction may make him feel uncomfortable with himself.

Toby Dundas is a sensual person who enjoys comfort and security, appreciates solidity and stability, is attached to their belongings, and is somewhat awkward and shy. Once they have chosen their life partner, Toby Dundas will prove to be a loyal mate.

Toby Dundas is somewhat plodding but realistic and pragmatic. Because he is chiefly preoccupied with the practical aspects of things, Toby Dundas is especially apt to develop more efficient production concepts. Although his good judgment and common sense provide him with an excellent ability to handle the tangible world (he is certainly clever, and can quickly assess the tangible value of things), his thought processes might be relatively impervious to abstract concepts and spiritual awakenings.

Toby Dundas tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.

In relations with other people, Toby Dundas’s behavior is usually kind and benevolent. He exerts a certain charm, knows how to speak persuasively and convincingly, and is adept at smoothing the asperities of what he has to say when it is necessary. This aspect of his personality is a great advantage to him socially; however, in situations where he must either compete or deal with direct conflict and hostility, he may be somewhat at a loss for how to behave. He has an undeniable gift for oratory which could be applied to a communications-related occupation or to artistic expression (as a stage or screen actor). Writing and dance, two other arts which associate expression and movement, might also be fields in which he would excel.

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