Mohammed Kudus has decided that it is time to improve and transform himself. The first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. He has pride and a short temper, a need for praise and a need to dominate, and a struggle to tolerate criticism.

Although it sometimes seems easier to me to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if I merely sacrifice my domestic life, I am only trying to fool myself. I should accept the fact that my domestic life is the true basis and foundation of my development. All my career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Mohammed Kudus feels a strong emotional response to the people and things around him. He is able to detach himself from his emotions to analyze and observe them, but this tendency sometimes prevents him from truly engaging himself in emotional terms. He subjects all his feelings to an intellectual interpretation rather than yielding to them, which can lead to faltering, hesitation, contradicting himself, and seeming to say both yes and no when he has the opportunity to commit himself emotionally. Mohammed should make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious conditioning which may be related to his childhood. He must first learn to observe and assimilate other people’s feelings instead of rejecting them. This exercise will teach him to understand his own reactions and affects better.

To trust yourself better and gain self-assurance, the first thing you must do is learn to say no. Once you are capable of saying no to others, you can say yes to life. You must develop your awareness of all the things you love and feel positive about, as well as all the changes you hope to make in order to enjoy life more. This will help you to overcome your fears and build a strong foundation on which to grow and change your personality.