Matthew Dellavedova’s psyche follows an extroverted thrust. He attempts to embody and actualize his ideas and the archetypes he identifies with in his objective life.

Matthew Dellavedova prefers to associate with people who share his interests. He is motivated by a need to work together with others and to share life’s pleasures and pain. His commitments to others are very important to his personal development. This dependence can present difficulties with self-assertion and make it hard for Matthew to make decisions on his own. If he wants to achieve inner equilibrium, he must behave in a way that benefits both himself and others.

Matthew Dellavedova tries to show interest in the outside world, social affairs, and anything else that contributes to the growth and development of society as a whole. Clubs, organizations, and other forms of partnership attract his attention and motivate his behavior. He tries to protect himself from his subjectivity by adopting an impersonal approach to life. Devoted to the common cause, his destiny is no longer his alone. It is almost entirely controlled by the people whose cause he has espoused.

Matthew Dellavedova approaches life pragmatically. He bases his judgements on past experience and is prone to skepticism. A hard worker, he takes pride in his own endeavors and has a personal concept of his productivity. His possessions help him assert himself as an individual and act as an antidote to any feelings of insecurity. As a result, material accomplishments may preoccupy him more than either love as a passion or intellectual or philosophical considerations. Nonetheless, he becomes attached to anything which offers him certainty.

Although you may not necessarily notice the fact about yourself because you are so strongly engaged in actions, feelings, or material concerns, you sometimes lack sound judgment. This impairment arises from a difficulty in obtaining perspective on yourself and your life. You may be puzzled by your troubled relations with others. You must make an effort to detach yourself from your personal reaction and observe it from an objective, more distant standpoint. If not, you are likely to find yourself under stress or pressure because you did not give enough prior thought to tactics and strategy. You may also experience dissatisfaction in your intimate relationships because you might struggle to get in sync with others. You give little time or respect to anyone you see as too “intellectual,” because you resist adapting to new ideas and viewpoints. In fact, an idea that rubs you the wrong way mentally and/or emotionally may elicit an explosive reaction. Self-analysis can be challenging for you and you tend to refuse to develop a solid, permanent idea of yourself – and this plays a lot of tricks on you.

You work hard to understand other people’s feelings. But, like you, they often have a difficult time understanding their own. You see the emotional world as a foreign place that can be dangerous, and you’re wary of getting too close. If you could get more comfortable with emotions, you would be better equipped to connect with others. However, because you see dependence on others as a threat, you often resist opening up to others. In fact, you are always making tentative steps into the emotional realm, because your loneliness and fear are so unbearable.