If Lilia Buckingham really wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution: – her overweening ego – her need to show off – her aggressiveness – her excesses
Lilia Buckingham sometimes senses a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.
Because of Lilia Buckingham’s tendency to be self-focused at times, she may encounter conflict in relationships. Her certainty that she is bound to succeed, combined with impulsiveness, make her want to take charge of everything. This aggressiveness and lack of cooperation could arouse resentment in others. She would do well to meditate on the concepts of authority and individualism.
Lilia Buckingham loathes contradiction. Although she has vast reserves of mental and intellectual concentration, she sometimes tends to be dogmatic or absolutist. Her rigid mindset denotes a certain adaptive difficulty.
Lilia Buckingham is something of a social butterfly. Although Lilia claims to be looking for a soulmate, it is tough for Lilia to remain interested in any one partner for very long. Lilia enjoys the mental stimulation of bubbly, worldly relationships with a variety of people. If Lilia allows herself to become aware of the scope of her frustration, Lilia might understand that Lilia’s pleasure-seeking attitude is merely a flight from Lilia’s true self.