If Gilbert Croes wants to improve himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. His shallowness, lack of sincerity, indifference, frivolity, and fear of commitment are all potential inhibitors to growth.

Gilbert Croes sometimes feels a conflict between his desire for social and professional success and his need for a stable and secure domestic life. He is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on him. Sometimes it feels as though he will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy him if he neglects his most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to him to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if he merely sacrifices his domestic life, he is only trying to fool himself. He should accept the fact that his domestic life is the true basis and foundation of his development. All his career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Gilbert Croes is curious but undiscriminating. He is high-strung and fluctuating; he sometimes has trouble disciplining his mind. Because he finds change and variety especially stimulating and pleasant, he may be a bit fickle as a partner in a relationship or friendship. Many of his conflicts with other people are due to his instability and lack of self-control. If he succeeds in mastering and channeling his considerable mental energy, he could be extremely effective in such fields as communications and teaching.

Gilbert Croes is a person who is ruled by their mind. They use their energy to conceive and create on the abstract plane. They are much more of an idealist than a pragmatist and do not become passionately engaged in human relationships, preferring a variety of casual contacts which demand little of them in return. As a result, it is sometimes difficult for Gilbert Croes to remain in close emotional rapport with another person without feeling hemmed in and stifled. With their peers, Gilbert Croes’ charm makes them popular, and they attract all sorts of helpful friendships. Due to the ease with which Gilbert Croes move in society and their eloquence, they have undeniable talents for communications and teaching.

To trust yourself better and gain self-assurance, the first thing you must do is learn to say no. Once you are capable of saying no to others, you can say yes to life. You must develop your awareness of all the good things in your life and all the changes you hope to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support you, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of your personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when you were helpless may be obstacles to your evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent you from daring to confront challenges you would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons you yield to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to you that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of your identity. However, the more often you reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware you become of your true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced your pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for you to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside you that claims you don’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of you could undermine your vitality and force you to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, you limit your power to bring about a positive change in yourself or your life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free yourself, the first step is to free yourself from the fears which prevent you from taking full advantage of life. You can succeed if you arrange a relaxed, positive environment for yourself, establish sincere relations with one or two special people, and find a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which you can practice relaxation exercises.