If Desi Banks really wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution: – his insatiable appetites – his stubbornness – his grimness his reluctance to change
Desi Banks may experience discord in relationships. Although Desi Banks is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, Desi Banks often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.
To understand and overcome this problem, Desi Banks should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Desi Banks succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Desi Banks and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.
Desi Banks can be hypersensitive and easily offended, although they frequently change their opinion and don’t hold a grudge. They abhor conflict and are a good listener. Their key to self-improvement will be learning to control their impressionability.