Bu Ku Dao searches for a stable life. He wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for his life, but his efforts are often vain because unconsciously, he is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time he believes he has reached a good balance, he realizes he wants something entirely different. Bu Ku Dao should become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.
Born under a new moon, Bu Ku Dao enjoys a positive balance between the conscious and unconscious aspects of her psyche. Her determination and sensitivity balance one another and work together harmoniously. Her inner life contributes to the relationships with other people which make up her outer life. Her parents or teachers probably gave her the type of education which was adapted to her personality. As a result, her personality is basically balanced, which, of course, does not mean that her life is devoid of little asperities. Generally, the goals she sets for herself correspond to her skills. Without giving the matter much thought, she tends to follow prevailing trends and behave in a conventional enough way. She is subjective and sees the world according to her own perceptions instead of the way it really is.
Bu Ku Dao finds the dark side of existence alluring and is attracted to mystery and the occult. It delightedly immerse itself in the depths of human experience, stretching its intellectual, emotional, and spiritual resources to their maximum.
Bu Ku Dao is winning and attractive. She has an appetite for intense emotional experiences, especially in terms of her relationships. Enjoying the power of her personal appeal, she easily controls her emotions and only rarely reveals the true depth of her feelings. Because her instincts take precedence over her sensitivity, she is capable of becoming jealous, possessive, and even rather harsh, without meaning to. More of a flirt than a voluptuary, she is attentive to desire. As a result, her love life will sometimes be casual and complicated.
Bu Ku Dao thinks about sexuality a lot. It's an important part of who she is, and it's what often determines her relationships. If she's in a relationship that is sexually satisfying, though, she can sometimes feel frustration. This is because she's driven by a kind of unconscious guilt to seek fulfillment for her heart and soul as well. She tends to be a very excessive and tormented partner, who often re-evaluates the bonds that connect her to her partners.
Bu Ku Dao tries to express her affections in the most graceful and harmonious way possible. Indeed, she has an innate sense of harmony and strives for a love relationship characterized by balance and perfection. She tends to idealize both her partner and the institution of marriage. Any disillusionment she encounters in the pursuit of her ideal may be experienced as a frustration. She does not always ply her powers of seduction skillfully.
Bu Ku Dao had an emotional function which was expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoyed reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, Bu Ku Dao was imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Bu Ku Dao loves extremes; she needs to possess people she loves completely. Her love life is usually complicated and pain-stricken; she knows this and tries to protect herself. Generally, she falls in love with those who resemble her – saints or sinners, but always passionate.
Bu Ku Dao is an impassioned being, almost exclusively devoted to her feelings, which rule her destiny. She is fairly impetuous and tends to ignore any other path than that of the emotions; as a result, she sometimes charges ahead blindly without really knowing where she will end up. Nevertheless, her emotional vagaries can have major consequences. Her marriage could become a crucial factor in her fate.
You have a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. You are emotive and hypersensitive, making you especially vulnerable emotionally, since you are sometimes overwhelmed by your feelings and affects. Although you seek an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom you could maintain blissful, smooth relations, you are sometimes met with disillusionment. Because your rather excessive sensitivity and your need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge your judgment and discernment, so you sometimes form extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When you meet someone, you fall under the enchantment of your dream of ideal love and cannot keep yourself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, you yield to another of your characteristic urges and lose yourself in the individual who is so dear to you, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find yourself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, your psyche is constructed in such a way as to make your sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before you take on any major commitments, you should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates your intense love, for you may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Your tendency to believe in your illusions may mark you as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for you to find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you tend to be so disappointed by your great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of your imagination procure artistic refinement for you, and you love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because your sensitivity also makes it easy for you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with, you might also find it rewarding to commit yourself to social work.
Curious, skeptical, and pragmatic, you have a shrewd, inquisitorial mind. You always try to detect the hidden mechanisms and processes behind the phenomena you observe. As a result, you have developed an ability to detect the truth behind appearances and the cause behind the effect. Although this way of thinking is based on a certain logic, and there is evidence of structure and cohesion in your deductive approach, it is not always purely intellectual. Indeed, its sources lie in a certain empiricism, in facts which have been experienced, so it is open to improvement. For this reason, its fields of application are highly diverse, although research in the hard sciences, psychology, and metaphysics seem to be the best career choices.
Bu Ku Dao expresses its thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. It is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, it looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.