Bruce Matthews is a serious, steadfast individual who tries to stay grounded. His ambitions are strong, and he will always be seeking a higher social position. He sometimes adopts a strategy of solitude and introversion.
Bruce Matthews has a paternal complex and, as a result, some trouble finding his identity. Perhaps his father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during his childhood, which deprived him of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because he might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, Bruce Matthews was forced to protect himself against negative influences and find his own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to him as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with his evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber his mind or inhibit his developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for him to assert himself, and he tends to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because his authoritarian urges are mainly directed at himself rather than others, Bruce Matthews sometimes feels guilty about his behavior. He judges himself severely, and sometimes punishes himself by setting difficult tasks for himself. Gradually, Bruce Matthews should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
Bruce Matthews is very sensitive and receptive. He tends to live in osmosis with his surroundings and absorbs everything he experiences. His individuality almost seems to be diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions which are constantly washing over him, and he sometimes finds it difficult to communicate his feelings to other people. This tide of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition, but his fluid inner structure and organization sometimes make it difficult for him to grasp the essence of his dreams and share them with other people. He is not at all combative, and this tends to hinder his efforts to fit into society and assert himself productively. He is likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but his refusal to abandon his unattainable dreams is a psychological trap he has fallen into without realizing it. He must understand that by running away from his obligations and commitments, he only increases the feelings of guilt which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once he free himself from this pernicious process, he has a great deal of potential for fulfilling himself in the outer world, either by devoting himself to some sort of social work or by cultivating his considerable artistic talents.
Bruce Matthews is a sensitive and gentle man, who often has nostalgic thoughts about his childhood. He is very social and enjoys spending time with others, even if he is slow to take risks. His mother or a mother-figure had a strong influence on his personality, and he still feels close to her memories. He is very sensitive, and is easily comforted by the presence of his spouse and children. Matthews is a traditional person, and may find it difficult to adjust to new situations.
Bruce Matthews has a sensitive and imaginative mind, which can sometimes lead him to confuse dreams with reality. Although his imagination can be a source of inspiration for spiritual and creative evolution, it can be less helpful and positive when it comes to practical matters, such as earning a living. In a relationship, Bruce is extremely romantic and often sees others in a way that is not entirely accurate. He has elegant tastes and beauty is one of his chief pleasures in life.
Bruce Matthews has a romantic nature and is seeking a soulmate. The world of his emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule his sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.
Bruce Matthews was born with an emotional function that is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, he is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
According to the foregoing, it seems that you are torn between different tendencies in your character. There is an inner conflict between your desire to be brilliant and your need for attachment, between your social ambitions and your longings for security, between your natural selfishness and your altruism. As a result, you are likely to become attached to a prominent person you can be proud of. Your own social position may disappoint you, but the satisfaction you derive from your loved ones or your children, should you choose to have them, will make up for your feeling you have lived vicariously.
Bruce Matthews preferred tenderness to wild passion. His ideal partner would be a person who was kind and affectionate. A warm and secure home life would bring him fulfillment, and he would devote himself, body and soul, to his family.
Bruce Matthews has a great emotional ideal, full of subtlety and tenderness. However, he tends to be overwhelmed by his imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. His romantic and trusting nature may make him vulnerable. Although he strives to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, he sometimes experiences painful disappointments. His artistic delicacy and refinement provide him with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. He is likely to be a gifted poet.
You are a complex individual, full of contradictions. You sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, so you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.
Bruce Matthews was powerfully ruled by his determination and vital needs. His intellectual abilities came to the forefront when his purpose was to communicate his ideal and plot his action or strategy. He could be both logical and astute, and had gifts for theorizing but sometimes lacked perspective.
Bruce Matthews expresses his thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. He is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, he looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.
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