Brooks Oberhansley knows that if he wants to become a better person, he must first become aware of his weaknesses. He knows that he can’t be cool and distant, that he needs to be considerate of others, that he needs to loosen up, that he needs to let go, and that he needs to be more emotionally open. He knows that he needs to be more flexible and to take more control when necessary, but that he should also be willing to let go and to trust others.