What does Brian Benben’s psychology tell us about them?

Brian Benben senses that he has instincts which may be dangerous, and tries to restrain and control them. As a result, he may adopt a fairly ascetic lifestyle. His attitude, which denies the vital importance of the most archaic and darkest forces within him, is not entirely innocuous. If he hopes for a more harmonious development, he will do well to realize that instincts can be tamed; they do not react positively to being trampled.

Brian Benben has a paternal complex. As a result, he has trouble finding his identity. Perhaps his father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during his childhood, which deprived him of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because he might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, he was forced to protect himself against negative influences and find his own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to him as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with his evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber his mind or inhibit his developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for him to assert himself, and he tends to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because his authoritarian urges are mainly directed at himself rather than others, he sometimes feels guilty about his behavior. He judges himself severely, and sometimes punishes himself by setting difficult tasks for himself. Gradually, he should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

Brian Benben was born under favorable astrological omens. The two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned at the moment of his birth, which portends a harmonious relationship between the masculine and feminine archetypes. This is beneficial for Brian, as it provides balance and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of his psyche. Additionally, Brian's parents reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to him, and this likely encouraged him to develop his own individuality. As a result, Brian is comfortable with himself, even in his emotional relationships with his peers. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, and the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.

Brian Benben is affectionate by nature, and love plays a decisive and central role in his life. He is a charmer who needs to love and be loved. Aware of his personal magnetism and the power it gives him, he will make subtle changes in himself in order to attract positive attention. He is sophisticated and pleased to savor a lifestyle he sees as a consummate art.

Brian Benben has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for Brian Benben to gain access to this part of himself. Brian Benben is confident in himself and life but may tend to be nonchalant. Brian Benben sometimes needs a little stimulation to get himself rolling and take some initiative. His optimism and inner certainty do not always drive him to give his utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills Brian Benben possesses are an advantage as well as a handicap. Brian Benben makes use of his theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for Brian Benben would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.

Brian Benben is sober and rather reserved, and may even strike people as harsh and austere at times. He was raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety, and, as a result, grew up very fast. He has acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency, tend to be rather uncompromising, and have a touchy sense of his personal dignity and worth. It is almost as though he was fighting an inner battle with his father or a father figure. The psychological models he received from his father or a father figure as a result of his interaction and his own interaction with authority may not have played a major role in shaping his relationships with the outer world and society. He may thus have been forced to compensate for this with individual determination. As a result, although he is skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, a lack of self-confidence and personal assurance sometimes makes him timid and hesitant. He sometimes feels as though he is only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. He tends to be far too critical of himself and rarely feels satisfied that he is living up to his ideal. These unnecessary guilt feelings may lead him to turn down the prominent career positions for which he is fully qualified. He is aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile and that time rewards those who know how to be patient and persistent, like him.

Brian Benben has a profound and fertile inner life and a prolific imagination, but his energy resources are not always sufficient to follow through on and accomplish his multitude of dreams. He tends to live in osmosis with his environment, and effort and action take a heavy toll on him. Usually, he understands phenomena and events intuitively, without really making any effort; so he is not in the habit of disciplining or shaping his thought processes. Like his thoughts, his personality is rather amorphous and disorganized. As a result of this lack of structure, he may have some trouble asserting his individuality and making some personal contribution to society through his career. His tendency to shut out reality and dream impossible dreams, like his refusal of responsibility and duty, may be a source of some difficulty for him.

Brian Benben tends to be motivated by activities which apply to social needs. He tends to give the best of himself in difficult situations which require crucial choices. His ability to concentrate and his gift for solving problems by deductive reasoning are his chief resources in crisis situations or at turning points in his life.

Brian Benben is winning and attractive. He has an appetite for intense emotional experiences, especially in terms of his relationships. Enjoying the power of his personal appeal, he easily controls his emotions and only rarely reveals the true depth of his feelings. Because his instincts take precedence over his sensitivity, he is capable of becoming jealous, possessive, and even rather harsh, without meaning to. More of a flirt than a voluptuary, he is attentive to desire. As a result, his love life will sometimes be casual and complicated.

Brian Benben has a lively, agile, and sensitive intellect. However, he doesn't always avail himself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although he enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, his thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. He is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste his nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Moreover, his feelings sometimes blur his objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause him to make errors in judgment.

Brian Benben has a sensitive and affectionate nature. He seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. His relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and he has a natural sense of tact and social grace.

Brian Benben has a sensitive nature. Although he may sometimes have trouble controlling his emotional reactions, they are nevertheless a source of vital energy for a constructive passion and may make an extremely positive contribution to his career. In relations with other people, Brian Benben is quite friendly; he willingly reaches out to people and knows how to listen to their desires and their problems.

Brian Benben is emotionally reactive and often expresses himself impulsively and excessively when his sensitivities are touched. Although he values independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency, he sometimes feels frustrated by his need to rely on family or friends. Moreover, he does not always grant the freedom of others the same respect as his own. Likewise, he can be angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if he feared that it would doom him to eternal dependency. His ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship he had with his mother or a mother figure. Although he was dependent on them, they may have rejected him. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which his sensitivities come into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off his feelings of dependency, Brian Benben sometimes becomes destructive. Based on denial, his reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.

Brian Benben has a romantic nature and is seeking a soulmate. The world of his emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule his sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.

Brian Benben's birth chart indicates a somewhat introverted emotional function which is influenced by the cultural values traditional to his family and social class. Because he does not always trust his emotional urges and reactions, he generally prefers to hang back and acquire some perspective before committing himself emotionally.

Brian Benben's emotional involvement might be the source of some dissatisfaction for him. The usual romantic behavior and the lifestyle values prevailing in this area are not really appropriate for him. As a result, he seeks few intimate emotional relationships or contacts. He tends to stay in the background and fulfill his emotional needs by sublimating. He might not attain full romantic satisfaction until he reaches middle age.

Brian Benben has a complicated personality. In love, he is capable of great sacrifice to his interests… or his weaknesses. He is sensual and has the ability to be fiercely committed. In periods of crisis, his psychological sense enables him to play on his partner's psychological foibles. At worst, he may lie shamelessly or engage in plots to arouse jealousy and passion… But be aware that a lack of tolerance will work against his happiness.

Brian Benben is a gentle and tender person who loves peace and tranquility. When it comes to romance, Brian is fickle and may have some self-destructive tendencies. But when he settles down, Brian becomes one with his partner in love and only needs them to meet his need for tender care. A large family could bring Brian fulfillment.

Brian Benben has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of Brian Benben's main purposes in life. Brian Benben's personal charm and magnetism give Brian Benben nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of Brian Benben's well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of Brian Benben's desires. Due to Brian Benben's impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, Brian Benben's approach to potential partners may sometimes lack delicacy.

Brian Benben has a great emotional ideal. He has a subtlety and tenderness that makes him great with people, but he can be overwhelmed with his imagination. He is selective with his partners and doesn't let his romantic and trusting nature get him into too much trouble. He strives for peaceful, uncomplicated relations, but sometimes he experiences painful disappointments. He is a gifted poet and can have a sincere love for the arts.

Brian Benben enjoys a lively wit which gives him great agility and scope and a broad field of consciousness which enlivens his curiosity and makes him love variety and change. His mind is alert and his speech is full of verve, humor, and sometimes impudence. These abilities are great resources in communication, discussion, and debate. Brian Benben is a storehouse of information and ideas of every kind and delights in manipulating words and concepts, discovering new things, and sharpening his memory for trivial facts. This mental agitation could sometimes make him scattered, however, or lacking in coherence and discipline.

Brian Benben expresses his thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. He is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, Brian looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.

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