Bobby Henline searches for stability; he wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for his life. But his efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, he is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time he reaches what he believes to be a good balance, he realizes he wants something entirely different. He would do well to become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.
Bobby Henline is affectionate by nature, and love plays a decisive and central role in his life. He is a charmer who needs to love and be loved. Aware of his personal magnetism and the power it gives him, he will make subtle changes in himself in order to attract positive attention. He is sophisticated and pleased to savor a lifestyle he sees as a consummate art.
Bobby Henline is energetic and vigorous, but also has a short temper and a penchant for starting projects which are not really appropriate for him. He is also likely to start arguments without really having meant to do so. Bobby Henline needs to learn to control his impulsiveness, which often leads to him injuring himself and starting conflicts he may not have intended to start. Before making any important decisions, he should take the time to ask himself if what he is about to do is really going to be good for him.
You were raised in an atmosphere of sobriety and rigor. You were always taught to be self-sufficient and to be hardworking. As a result, you have acquired a spirit of determination and self-confidence. You tend to be uncompromising and have a touchy sense of your personal dignity. Although you are skilled, meticulous, and conscientious, you sometimes feel timid and hesitant. You are aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile, and that you must be patient and persistent in order to achieve long-term success.
Bobby Henline values freedom and independence. He expends a great deal of energy to ensure that his private life expresses these values. To avoid being tied down, he tends to be skittish when it comes to any profound involvement in a relationship. As a consequence, he might intellectualize his emotions and feelings and feel as though he can live more easily on friendship than on love. Extremely socially-minded but idealistic, Bobby Henline almost certainly feels an affinity with the ideals of some social reform movement. His imagination looks to the future.
Bobby Henline’s intellect is lively, agile, and sensitive. However, he does not always avail himself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although he enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, his thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. He is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste his nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Moreover, his feelings sometimes blur his objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause him to make errors in judgment.
In matters of the heart, Bobby Henline is fairly shy, reserved, and discreet. Even in intimacy, he remains modest and does not always readily express his feelings. He’s sensitive and giving, wishing to be of service to those he loves. He would do well to trust that he deserves to be made as happy as he makes his partners.
Bobby Henline’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, Bobby tries to rid himself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Bobby Henline is a romantic and idealistic person who is inhibited in love. Although he may have a difficult time finding love, he will never ignore his imagination. His ideal of independence may nevertheless be frustrated by the constraints inherent to married life.
Although Bobby Henline is fairly timid and sometimes inhibited about love, he is not made for a dull, routine daily life. He aspires to something else. He may find himself committed to a partner who does not fulfill his aspirations completely.
Bobby Henline has the ardent, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of Bobby’s main purposes in life. His personal charm and magnetism are compellingly seductive; unfortunately, his attempts at conquest do not always lead to the fulfillment and satisfaction of his desires. Due to his impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, his approach to those he is attracted to may sometimes lack tact and delicacy. As a result of the foregoing, it may be somewhat difficult for Bobby to maintain stable and harmonious relationships. Indeed, his emotional behavior is subject to a conflict between his quest for love and his need to satisfy his lust. His outpourings of affection and his need to be loved in return sometimes create complicated situations in which lust may be confused with love, or love may exist without lust, and Bobby may feel unrequited or unfulfilled. This inner contradiction is a sign of Bobby’s tendency to derive pleasure from suffering – either his own or that of his partner. The relationship thus becomes the setting for a sort of power struggle, weakening it as a source of psychological equilibrium. Nevertheless, Bobby could sublimate this difficulty through artistic expression.
Bobby Henline is powerfully ruled by his determination and vital needs. His intellectual abilities come to the forefront when his purpose is to communicate his ideal and plot his action or strategy. He can be both logical and astute, and have gifts for theorizing but may sometimes lack perspective.
Bobby Henline expresses his thoughts and ideas carefully, but with a relative lack of spontaneity. He is rather introverted and looks inside himself for the solutions to the problems he encounters in life. Because Bobby distrusts customary thought patterns, his opinion is usually highly personal.
Bobby Henline often has difficulty communicating because he is oriented inwardly and he enjoys communicating with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. He often feels misunderstood and it is difficult for him to express the complexity of his inner perceptions.
You sometimes make mistakes in judgment, and your understanding of things is not always in tune with social realities or prevailing opinion. Your judgments tend to be hasty; your decisions are reckless. Moreover, you tend to overestimate your abilities and usually aim higher than might be realistic. Once an enterprise or project is underway, you may try to avoid obstacles by dodging certain duties. Because your vision of the world differs somewhat from social realities, you should be extremely careful and scrupulous in regard to legal matters, in order to avoid any complications of that type. You are sometimes slightly dishonest in your relations; you may break promises or attempt to duck responsibility. However, you should realize that such conduct toward other people is also a form of unconscious self-loathing. If you continue to behave in such a way, you are exposing yourself to the same lack of sincerity from your partners.