What does Bo Bech’s psychology tell us about them?

Bo Bech searches for stability; he wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for his life. But his efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, he is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time he reaches what he believes to be a good balance, he realizes he wants something entirely different. He would do well to become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.

Bo Bech has a taste for luxury and magnificence, for a dazzling social life and a distinguished career. When things are going well for him, he tends to think of himself as the center of the universe, an attitude that those close to him do not always appreciate. Although he is quite likely to succeed in his ambition to become wealthy and popular and lead a remarkable life in the outer world, his lack of moderation and overweening self-confidence expose him to some danger. His exaggerated optimism could create difficulties for him by causing him to make errors in judgment.

You are an individual who is staunchly independent and believes in freedom as the most important value in life. You have rejected the social norms and conventions of your class, and have adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your strong convictions can sometimes be a challenge for your relationships, as you are uncompromising in your dealings. You need to learn to recognize your own limitations, and accept the responsibilities that come with being an independent individual. This may stem from your relationship with your father or teachers in childhood and adolescence. For some reason, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, in the same way that you now refuse to adopt any of the norms and values common to society. In every important life decision, you must rely on yourself to develop the appropriate behavior, and set boundaries on your desires in relation to reality and the law.

Bo Bech has a profound and fertile inner life and a prolific imagination, but his energy resources are not always sufficient to follow through on and accomplish his multitude of dreams. He tends to live in osmosis with his environment, and effort and action take a heavy toll on him. Usually, he understands phenomena and events intuitively, without really making any effort; so he is not in the habit of disciplining or shaping his thought processes. Like his thoughts, his personality is rather amorphous and disorganized. As a result of this lack of structure, he may have some trouble asserting his individuality and making some personal contribution to society through his career. His tendency to shut out reality and dream impossible dreams, like his refusal of responsibility and duty, may be a source of some difficulty for him.

Bo Bech is a very sociable person. He is instinctively in tune with others and he is tactful and diplomatic. He is also fond of harmony and order in artistic terms. Bo Bech is sensitive and discerning and he will avoid anything crude and vulgar. As a result, he is sometimes offended by the harsh demands of existence. Relationships (the couple, or a partnership) take a central role in his life.

Bo Bech maintains strong ties with his past, and it often seems difficult for him to open his heart to new people. His love affairs might exist on the surface level, because his lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for him to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.

Bo Bech has a sensual and affectionate nature which is sensitive to physical attraction. This type of sensitivity, combined with her productive urges, may be expressed in an artistic form. As for her feelings, they are usually slow to take root. But once she is conquered by love, she forms a deep and lasting bond. Although she is loyal, she may also display a tendency to be somewhat possessive.

Bo Bech’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, he tries to rid himself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

Bo Bech is understanding and knows how to empathize and get whatever they want without even asking. Their artistic nature requires refined and elegant surroundings. Indeed, they enjoy the social whirl and are a talented hostess. In a relationship, they require perfect harmony of feeling. Only a scrumptious person who is attentive, admiring, and perfectly understanding will be able to fulfill them.

Bo Bech’s emotions are fleeting and transitory, and he is extremely curious about sexuality. As a partner in a relationship, he manages to obtain what he wants without committing himself and always succeeds in being forgiven for his mistakes. His companion will no doubt be a devoted person.

Bo Bech has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of Bo Bech’s main purposes in life. Bo Bech’s personal charm and magnetism give Bo Bech nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of Bo Bech’s well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of Bo Bech’s desires. Due to Bo Bech’s impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, Bo Bech’s approach to members of the other sex may sometimes lack delicacy.

You are hypersensitive and tend to relive the anxieties, apprehensions, and romantic absolutes of your first love relationships, which occurred around the ages of 13-14 years or 20-21 years. You are exquisitely sensitive, but almost completely barricaded behind a layer of aloofness. You will not settle for anything less than eternal commitment, total harmony, and absolute loyalty. You are sometimes presumed to be cold, even by those close to you. You usually hide your emotional reactions or do not even allow them to reach the level of your consciousness, in order to protect your sensitivity, which you see as your weak point. You are fairly vulnerable, even in the intimacy of a stable and established relationship. Usually, you will disguise your strong feelings as a kind of possessiveness or even jealousy. Certain misfortunes may arouse a negative emotional state inside you, and you feel unworthy of the love which is lavished on you. This psychological prohibition which rules over all of your desires and affects should loosen with the passage of time; likewise, your fear of approaching the other will diminish. As a result, the second part of your romantic life will be more rewarding. In any case, if you want to experience a harmonious love relationship and gratify yourself emotionally, the defense mechanisms you have elaborated to make yourself inaccessible to others will have to be dismantled. Any profound relationship will also require that you learn how to forget yourself occasionally in the other.

You are a complex individual, full of contradictions. You sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, so you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.

Bo Bech is an intuitive thinker. He does not reason things out through a long, articulate, logical discourse; instead, he seize the visions or insights that spontaneously flash into his consciousness. He thus has a form of immediate knowledge of various phenomena which is based neither on reasoning nor on any elaborate thought process or method. As a result, if he is an extrovert, he will possess an inventive, innovative spirit gifted for improvisation. If he is an introvert, his mind will be an abundant source of personal inner truths.

Bo Bech does not express his thoughts and ideas smoothly or easily. He tends to be subjective, seeking to know himself better through a process of introversion.

Bo Bech has an intellectual faculty and wit that are sometimes slowed down because they are turned inward. Because Bo Bech tends to be oriented toward himself, he rarely tries to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. Indeed, Bo Bech sometimes feels misunderstood. Moreover, it seems difficult for Bo Bech to express the complexity of his inner perceptions.

Bo Bech is sometimes a mistake in judgment, failing to take into account social realities or prevailing opinion. He often takes hasty decisions, overestimating his abilities and aiming higher than is realistic. Additionally, Bo Bech is dishonest in his dealings with others, breaking promises and dodging responsibility. If Bo Bech does not stop his reckless behavior, he will continue to be unprofessional with his partners.

You are drawn to expressions of emotion and communication. Without speaking, you cannot survive. You enjoy using your voice to persuade, captivate, and sway an audience. You are attracted to anything new and original, and quickly understand the value of the latest technology or philosophy. Because you are high-strung, you may have trouble concentrating on a single subject for very long. However, your open-mindedness enables you to be creative and progress in your career.

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