BlameItOnKWay does not have confidence in itself, which causes challenges in relationships. It does not have self-esteem, which inhibits the full expression of its generosity and love.

You are acutely aware of the void and the vanity of existence. You are sometimes disoriented and deconstructed by an unknowable, unconscious force and tend to ignore or disparage the superficial pleasures and pains of daily life, preferring to dive into the depths of human experience as deeply as your intellectual, emotional, and spiritual capacities permit. Grappling with your “fundamental nature,” with the deepest and most primitive part of yourself, you are sometimes aghast at the discovery of the sheer power of the life instinct and feels an imperious need to cope with it. This special consciousness you have been endowed with is somewhat beyond the bounds of conventional schools of human understanding and thought and may be a source of identity problems for you at the outset. It is not easy for you to recognize yourself in any social or narcissistic models or identify with any existing roles or attitudes, so you sometimes find yourself forced to construct and assert your own identity on a basis which may impress others with its intensity, if not its eccentricity.

The usually cool and distant person represses their feelings and sensitivity, and avoids the sort of situation where they might be forced to express them. This inhibition is related to a feeling of not having been loved enough. In many cases, to the detriment of their love life, they are capable of plunging all their energy into their work. They seek social recognition through their career achievements.

BlameItOnKWay has a sensitive and affectionate nature. They seek tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Their relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and they have a natural sense of tact and social grace.

BlameItOnKWay is emotional and tends to react suddenly and excessively as soon as its sensitivity is touched. Although it feels that its independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, it is sometimes frustrated by its need to rely on its family or friends. Moreover, it does not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as its own. Likewise, it is sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if it feared that it would doom it to eternal dependency. Its ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship it had with its mother or mother figure. Although it was dependent on them, they may have rejected it. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which its sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are liable to form. To ward off its feelings of dependency, it tends to become destructive. Based on denial, its reactions are sometimes fierce, impulsive, and excessive, erratic, or contradictory.

Due to your sensitivity and fertile imagination, you sometimes have trouble distinguishing dreams from reality. Although your bubbling imagination provides an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it tends to be less helpful and positive in matters that concern your self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient. Although your psychic faculties drive you to fulfill yourself through artistic activities like painting, drawing, music, or poetry, it may be difficult for you to market your talents in terms of a career. In a relationship, you are extremely romantic and do not always see others the way they really are. Because of your tendency to idealize people, you may be disappointed when their true natures are eventually betrayed.

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BlameItOnKWay’s sensitivity often overwhelms partners, and its compassion for others is profound. It readily sacrifices its own interests to provide help and assistance. A romantic as well as an idealist, it sometimes lacks discernment in the choice of its partners. It is fairly confused and evasive and has trouble expressing its feelings clearly. Nevertheless, it is capable of devoting itself entirely to the person it loves. It has a tendency to daydream and become lost in itself.

BlameItOnKWay’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

BlameItOnKWay is fairly independent and has trouble finding emotional fulfillment. Because of this, they have learned to shield their sensitivity by being critical or ironic. Because they fear being overwhelmed by their feelings and do not readily yield to love, they prefer friendship. Their ideal partner would be original, tender, and reassuring, apt to instill cheerfulness in their relationship, and bright enough to stimulate them intellectually. If BlameItOnKWay were to marry too young or too soon, they might find themselves trapped in a stultifying situation.

BlameItOnKWay seems to be a paradox or instability in their love life. There is a chance they will break some hearts around them with their lack of commitment. They attract sentimental or naive partners of whom they usually tire quickly. Quarrels and reconciliation may alternate under their roof if they satisfy themselves with a person who is not really a good match for them. Several marriages or unions are likely.

BlameItOnKWay has a great emotional ideal, full of subtlety and tenderness. However, she tends to be overwhelmed by her imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. Her romantic and trusting nature may make her vulnerable. Although she strives to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, she sometimes experiences painful disappointments. Her artistic delicacy and refinement provide her with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. She is likely to be a gifted poet.

From the outside, you seem to be detached and aloof, but on the inside you are an extremely complex individual, full of contradictions. Because you sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.

BlameItOnKWay is a flexible individual with progressive, inventive, and sometimes utopian ideas. They relate to human or social problems. They always strive to be in the vanguard, creating a better world for the future.

BlameItOnKWay expresses its thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. It is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, it looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.

BlameItOnKWay has a lively and agile spirit. They are curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences with an attitude free of dogmatism and prejudice. As a result of their great mental vitality, they tend to have an opinion on every subject, but they do not always have the patience necessary to examine a subject in-depth. They enjoy manipulating expressions and concepts and amuse themselves with witty remarks, satire, and controversy. If they learned to control their flow of words and elaborate their thoughts more, they could make a talented communicator. Because they are often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform their ideas, they are sometimes misunderstood. They are often blind to the rashness of their judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around them. If they were to succeed in disciplining their mind somewhat, they would have innumerable opportunities to apply their communications skills to a great career. However, they would do well to be careful of their nerves.