Consciousness and The Ideal of Self:
BlameItOnKWay is an individualistic person who sometimes has trouble expressing themselves in relationships. They may have low self-esteem which causes challenges in their interactions with others.
BlameItOnKWay has an inalienable awareness of the void and the vanity of existence. They are sometimes disoriented and deconstructed by an unknowable, unconscious force and tend to ignore or disparage the superficial pleasures and pains of daily life, preferring to dive into the depths of human experience as deeply as their intellectual, emotional, and spiritual capacities permit. Grappling with their “fundamental nature,” with the deepest and most primitive part of themselves, they are sometimes aghast at the discovery of the sheer power of the life instinct and feels an imperious need to cope with it.
This special consciousness they have been endowed with is somewhat beyond the bounds of conventional schools of human understanding and thought and may be a source of identity problems for them at the outset. It is not easy for them to recognize themselves in any social or narcissistic models or identify with any existing roles or attitudes, so they sometimes find themselves forced to construct and assert their own identity on a basis which may impress others with its intensity, if not its eccentricity.
Adaptation and Sensitivity:
BlameItOnKWay is usually cool and distant in demeanor, repressing feelings and sensitivity and avoiding the sort of situation where they might be forced to express them. This inhibition is related to a feeling of not having been loved enough. In many cases, to the detriment of their love life, they are capable of plunging all their energy into their work. They seek social recognition through their career achievements.
Although BlameItOnKWay’s demeanor is cool and distant, they are extremely sensitive. In some cases, their rather austere and rigid behavior and their refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. They have spells of melancholy in which they do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid themselves emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. They may have suffered rejection in their infancy, and, as a result, lacked the parental love which is essential to the cohesion of a personality and identity. In order to feel secure, and to protect themselves from ever suffering rejection or abandonment again, they withdrew into themselves and developed their aloofness as a defense mechanism. When they finally let down their defenses and allow themselves to express their feelings, they tend to become impassioned and exalted. They are fairly introverted and egocentric and have a powerful sense of their own identity.
Because of their nagging feelings of insecurity, celebrities sometimes try to justify themselves to others and gain their approval by showing that they are worthy of their affection. Nevertheless, their pessimism remains, and the severe taboos they unconsciously place on themselves sometimes keep them from developing quickly.
Due to BlameItOnKWay’s extreme sensitivity and irrepressible imagination, they sometimes have trouble distinguishing dreams from reality. Although their bubbling imagination provides an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it tends to be less helpful and positive in matters that concern their self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient. Although their psychic faculties drive them to fulfill themselves through artistic activities like painting, drawing, music, or poetry, it may be difficult for them to market their talents in terms of a career. In a relationship, they are extremely romantic and do not always see others the way they really are. Because of their tendency to idealize people, they may be disappointed when their true natures are eventually betrayed.
BlameItOnKWay does not always readily reveal themselves, and they tend to protect their sensitivity. They have a penchant for intense emotions. Sexuality is a prominent element in their life, and their relationships, which are usually passionate, are motivated by their desires. They like to understand the hidden side of people, their secret or unconfessed motivations. They would thus find a career which placed them in contact with troubled people especially rewarding.
Love and Sensuality:
BlameItOnKWay’s sensitivity may sometimes overwhelm their partners, and their compassion for the other is profound. They readily sacrifice their own interest to others, to provide help and assistance. A romantic as well as an idealist, they sometimes lack discernment in the choice of their partners. They are fairly confused and evasive and have trouble expressing their feelings clearly. Nevertheless, they are capable of devoting themselves entirely to the person they love. They have a tendency to daydream and become lost in themselves.
BlameItOnKWay’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of their emotional urges and somewhat wary of their feelings, they try to rid themselves of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Fairly independent, BlameItOnKWay has trouble finding emotional fulfillment. Your youthful idealism subsided into disillusionment which has taught you to shield your sensitivity by being critical or ironic. Because your fear being overwhelmed by your feelings and do not readily yield to love, you prefer friendship. Your ideal partner would be original, tender, and reassuring, apt to instill cheerfulness in your relationship, and bright enough to stimulate you intellectually. Were you to marry too young or too soon, you might find yourself trapped in a stultifying situation.
Paradox or instability may reign at times in BlameItOnKWay’s love life. There is some chance they will break some hearts around them with their lack of commitment. They attract sentimental or naive partners of whom they usually tire quickly. Quarrels and reconciliation may alternate under their roof if they satisfy themselves with a person who is not really a good match for them. Several marriages or unions are likely.
BlameItOnKWay has a great emotional ideal, full of subtlety and tenderness. However, BlameItOnKWay tends to be overwhelmed by BlameItOnKWay’s imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. BlameItOnKWay’s romantic and trusting nature may make BlameItOnKWay vulnerable. Although BlameItOnKWay strives to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, BlameItOnKWay sometimes experiences painful disappointments. BlameItOnKWay’s artistic delicacy and refinement provide BlameItOnKWay with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. BlameItOnKWay is likely to be a gifted poet.
From the outside, BlameItOnKWay seems to be detached and aloof, but on the inside they are an extremely complex individual, full of contradictions. Because they sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, they try to control not only their own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of their partners. They aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning themselves and yielding to the other terrifies them. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because they are guarded and somewhat secretive, they tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although they are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, they will not express their feelings unless they are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of their emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, they are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.
Mental and Intellect:
BlameItOnKWay is a flexible individual, and their intellectual faculties draw on sudden flashes of pure intuition as well as logical, rational thought. They have progressive, inventive, and sometimes utopian ideas; they usually relate to human or social problems. They always strive to be in the vanguard, creating a better world for the future.
BlameItOnKWay expresses their thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. They are fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, they look forward to a bright future but are sometimes subjective and reckless.
BlameItOnKWay has a lively and agile spirit. They are curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences with an attitude free of dogmatism and prejudice. As a result of their great mental vitality, they tend to have an opinion on every subject, but they do not always have the patience necessary to examine a subject in-depth.
They enjoy manipulating expressions and concepts and amuse themselves with witty remarks, satire, and controversy. If they learned to control their flow of words and elaborate their thoughts more, they could make a talented communicator. Because they are often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform their ideas, they are sometimes misunderstood.
They are often blind to the rashness of their judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around them. If they were to succeed in disciplining their mind somewhat, they would have innumerable opportunities to apply their communications skills to a great career. However, they would do well to be careful of their nerves.