If you want to improve, the first step is to become aware of your weaknesses. These might be things holding you back from evolving, such as preferring illusions, being hypersensitive, being emotional, lacking self-confidence, or feeling guilty.
Ben Murphy has deeply anchored emotional needs. Invariably, he tries to revive these sensations from his personal history, clinging to the security provided by the repetition of a feeling which produced a positive effect in the past. His desire for possession (tangible or emotional) could become a problem, because he may fixate on an object which is negative or bad for him. He will do well to make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious negative conditioning which may be related to his childhood.