If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your coolness and distance, your lack of consideration for others, your rigidity, your need for total control, or your fear of your emotions.

Ben Abbott may experience discord in relationships. Although he is friendly and outgoing and commits himself to friendships and partnerships, he often finds it difficult to balance his own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, he should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If he succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship he and his partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Ben Abbott is a social butterfly. Although he claims to be looking for a soulmate, it is tough for him to remain interested in any one partner for very long. He enjoys the mental stimulation of bubbly, worldly relationships with a variety of people. If he allows himself to become aware of the scope of his frustration, he might understand that his pleasure-seeking attitude is merely a flight from his true self.

Ben Abbott has a remarkable ability to attract, accumulate, and manage wealth and earthly goods. Although his physical and mental energy is not as great as other signs, he has a remarkable ability to attract money and earthly possessions. He is quite capable of working with endurance and persistence, but his special qualities of organization, inspiration, and inspiration are what enable him to make his work as profitable as possible. Ben’s weaknesses may make him plod through life in a somewhat conservative and conventional way; however, his attachment to material and physical comfort can often be transcended and evolve in a more spiritual direction.