Beau Bowker needs others in order to structure himself. He intuitively senses this need and seeks a balance between his individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return, although it sometimes eludes him. Marriage and friendship could be realms to which he is especially devoted, but they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.
Beau Bowker has a taste for luxury and magnificence, for a dazzling social life and a distinguished career. When things are going well for him, he tends to think of himself as the center of the universe, an attitude that those close to him do not always appreciate. Although he is quite likely to succeed in his ambition to become wealthy and popular and lead a remarkable life in the outer world, his lack of moderation and overweening self-confidence exposes him to some danger. His exaggerated optimism could create difficulties for him by causing him to make errors in judgment.
You were raised in a strict and sober environment, and as a result, you have developed a strong sense of self-reliance. You are very uncompromising, and you have a touchy sense of your personal dignity and worth. It seems as though you are fighting an inner battle with your father or a father figure. The psychological models you received from your father or a father figure as a result of your interaction and your own interaction with authority may not have played a major role in shaping your relationships with the outer world and society. You may thus have been forced to compensate for this lack with individual determination. As a result, although you are skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, you sometimes feel timid and hesitant. You sometimes feel as though you are only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. You tend to be far too critical of yourself and rarely feel satisfied that you are living up to your ideal. These unnecessary guilt feelings may lead you to turn down the prominent career positions for which you are fully qualified. You are aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile, and that time rewards those who know how to be patient and persistent, like you.
You are an individualist who values freedom and independence above all else. You have rejected the conventions of your social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions sometimes trouble your relationships, as you are an uncompromising partner. You would do well to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people. If you do not learn to do this, you are liable to find yourself continually embroiled in conflicting relationships. The roots of your somewhat extreme behavior probably lie in your relationship with your father or teachers in childhood and adolescence. For one reason or another, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, in the same way as you now refuse to adopt any values related to convention, tradition, or widespread usage. In every important life decision you make, you are forced to rely on yourself to elaborate the appropriate behavior and the limits you must impose on your desires in relation to reality and the law.
Beau Bowker is sensitive and receptive and tends to live in osmosis with his surroundings. He sometimes finds it difficult to communicate his feelings to other people or engage in any structured, analytical thought. This may stem from a misunderstanding with his teachers when he was a child. Unable to understand their disciplinary measures or authority, Beau withdrew into himself in self-defense. It was then that he constructed his rich inner life, the part of him they could not invade, and cut many of his ties to the outside. Because he enjoyed indulging in his inner life, it may have been difficult for Beau to acquire an objective vision of reality. As a result, even today, Beau tends to create imaginary problems for himself, regardless of the objective facts outside. Although his imagination is a source of inspiration and intuition, his fluid inner structure and organization sometimes make it difficult for him to grasp the essence of his dreams and share them with other people. Beau is not at all combative, and this tends to hinder his efforts to fit into society and assert himself productively. Beau is likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but his refusal to abandon his unattainable dreams is a psychological trap he has fallen into without realizing it. Beau must understand that by running away from his obligations and commitments, he only increases the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once Beau frees himself from this pernicious process, he has a great deal of potential for fulfilling himself in the outer world, either by devoting himself to some sort of social work or by cultivating his considerable artistic talents.
Beau Bowker generally tends to be motivated by activities which apply to social needs. He tends to give the best of himself in difficult situations which require crucial choices. His ability to concentrate and his gift for solving problems by deductive reasoning are his chief resources in crisis situations or at turning points in his life.
Beau Bowker is usually cool and distant in demeanor, preferring to keep his feelings and sensitivity under wraps. This inhibition is related to a feeling of not having been loved enough. In many cases, to the detriment of his love life, Beau is capable of plunging all his energy into his work. Beau seeks social recognition through his career achievements.
Beau Bowker maintains strong ties with his past, and it often seems difficult for him to open his heart to new people. His love affairs might exist on the surface level, because his lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for him to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.
Beau Bowker has a sensitive and emotional nature which sometimes conflicts with his instincts. This inner discord makes him a complicated relationship partner, and his behavior sometimes strikes others as mysterious or baffling. He is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of his life, and his relationships are most often motivated by his desires. Nevertheless, due to his unconscious inner battle, he does not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling his emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of his instincts, passion may overwhelm him and drag him into situations he cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.
Beau Bowker has a romantic nature and is seeking a soulmate. The world of his emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule his sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.
Beau Bowker’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, Beau tries to rid himself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Beau Bowker is a shy and unsure person who is liable to be stuck on the sidelines of life, despite their qualities. If they manage to overcome their inhibitions, they could have a brilliant career. Their private life should emerge from its melancholy and relative frigidity, improving with time and giving rise to a deep and enduring commitment. A lively and intelligent person should be able to draw Beau out of their shell.
Beau Bowker walks through the green fields, admiring the beauty of nature. He often thinks about the places he’s seen and the people he’s met, wondering if any of them could be the one. He’s ready to find a partner who will be by his side for the rest of his life, someone who will be happy and content just being with him. Someone who will be tender and faithful, and will leave Beau free to live his life the way he wishes. Beau is looking for someone who will be a good parent to his or her children, someone who will be there for them always.
You are an extremely complex individual, full of contradictions. Because you sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.
Beau Bowker has an intellect which is simultaneously subjective and sensitive, acute and intuitive, always practical and deeply rooted in human experience. His memory and imagination combine with his shrewdness to make him a gifted project manager, businesswoman, or scholar of history or literature.
Beau Bowker does not express his thoughts and ideas easily. He tends to be subjective, seeking to know himself better through a process of introversion.
Beau Bowker often finds himself thinking too much and not enough. His mind is constantly preoccupied with complex ideas, but it’s difficult for him to communicate what he’s thinking because he’s not used to engaging in social interactions for the simple pleasure of it. He often feels misunderstood, and he finds it difficult to express the depth of his thoughts.
Beau Bowker has a tendency to make mistakes in judgment, which usually lead to reckless decisions and overestimation of his abilities. He also tends to be dishonest in his dealings with others, which can lead to frustration and hurt feelings. If Beau Bowker continues to behave this way, it will only further damage his relationships.
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