Bandokay searches for stability in life, but finds that it is hard to find an unchanging structure. Every time he thinks he has found a good balance, he realizes that he wants something else. He should become aware that stability and balance are difficult to achieve in life, because life is always moving, changing, and unstable.
You are an individualist who believes that the most fundamental values in life are freedom and independence. You have defied social conventions and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your convictions can at times be difficult to live with, as you can be very uncompromising when it comes to your relationships. You may have difficulties recognizing your own limitations, and as a result, you may be embroiled in conflictual relationships frequently. It is likely that your rebellious behavior stems from your relationship with your father or teachers when you were younger. For some reason, you may have rejected the father figure or refused to identify with him, in the same way that you do not now follow the conventional values in life. In every important decision you make as an adult, you have to rely on yourself to come up with an appropriate course of action. And, as you are highly independent, you are often forced to make decisions that go against what is popular or accepted.
Bandokay enjoys physical and mental freedom. His youth and home may have been of the rootless, wandering type, which has given him a taste for movement and independence. He needs to be aware that his life has a purpose and hunt for it in various belief systems, both traditional and new age. In fact, he has an unmistakable gift for philosophy. The faraway appeals to him, and travel is likely to be an important aspect of his life.
Bandokay has a lively, agile, and sensitive intellect. However, sometimes he does not avail himself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although he enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, his thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. He is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste his nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Additionally, his feelings sometimes blur his objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause him to make errors in judgment.
Bandokay has a sensitive and affectionate nature. They seek tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Their relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and they have a natural sense of tact and social grace.
Bandokay is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find him generous almost to a fault! He gives of himself and his resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when he is self-focused. He reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and is prone to misjudge. As a result, his everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, he senses a conflict between his social life and his family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill himself in both spheres at the same time. His attitude toward his private life may inhibit his ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on his private life. He should be careful not to project his personal problems onto his partner. If, instead, the two of them analyzed the problem, they might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.
Bandokay, sexuality is an important part of your life, and your relationships are most often determined by your instincts. If you have a relationship that is exclusively satisfying sexually, however, you might feel frustration, because you are driven by a kind of unconscious guilt to seek fulfillment for your heart and soul as well. You tend to be a rather excessive and tormented partner, who often re-evaluates the bonds that connect you to your partners.
Bandokay’s personality is dominated by love and affectivity. He is subject to love at first sight, and his gallant heart sometimes leaps forth impulsively; his sensitivity is lively and powerful. Amorous rivalries and conquests may be a recurring theme throughout his life.
Bandokay’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, he is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Bandokay glows with a youthful simplicity and dewy freshness that make her very endearing. Quite sensitive to physical attraction, she loves blithely and lustily. Because she needs to feel free and independent, a possessive partner would be a bad match for her. Even when committed, she will cling to her taste for freedom and will refuse all obligations and monotony.
Bandokay’s love of freedom and high ideals tend to draw them to successful people, sportsmen, and adventurers. They have a good chance of meeting a partner who accepts their independence, respects their freedom, and shares their enthusiasm and love of traveling.
Bandokay has a great emotional ideal, full of subtlety and tenderness. However, she tends to be overwhelmed by her imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. Her romantic and trusting nature may make her vulnerable. Although she strives to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, she sometimes experiences painful disappointments. Her artistic delicacy and refinement provide her with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. She is likely to be a gifted poet.
Bandokay has a lively wit which gives them great agility and scope and a broad field of consciousness which enlivens their curiosity and makes them love variety and change. Their mind is alert and their speech is full of verve, humor, and sometimes impudence. These abilities are great resources in communication, discussion, and debate. They are a storehouse of information and ideas of every kind and delights in manipulating words and concepts, discovering new things, and sharpening their memory for trivial facts. This mental agitation could sometimes make them scattered, however, or lacking in coherence and discipline.
Bandokay tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
In relations with other people, Bandokay is usually kind and benevolent. You exert a certain charm, know how to speak persuasively and convincingly, and are adept at smoothing the asperities of what you have to say when it is necessary. This aspect of your personality is a great advantage to you socially; however, in situations where you must either compete or deal with direct conflict and hostility, you may be somewhat at a loss for how to behave. You have an undeniable gift for oratory which could be applied to a communications-related occupation or to artistic expression (as a stage or screen actor). Writing and dance, two other arts which associate expression and movement, might also be fields in which you would excel.
You have a deep and penetrating intelligence, but your thought processes tend to be somewhat plodding. This slow pace may be the consequence of some failure or humiliation during your formative years. You are fairly inhibited and pessimistic and tend to doubt in yourself and your intellectual skills despite your undeniable gifts as a thinker. You should become aware that your thought patterns and habits are the sign that you are on the brink of a really big breakthrough which will give you an understanding of the complexity of things and phenomena; however, it will take time and effort. Your mind is accurate and deep and is attracted by the essence of things and their fundamental structure. As a result, you are particularly suited to the study of mathematics, architecture, engineering, or perhaps even politics. Your contribution to society will probably be most lasting and effective in the field of knowledge and expertise. Whatever career you choose, you should learn to work alone, because you tend to be uncomfortable in some surroundings. You will also have to learn to conquer your impatience, because you tend to waste time agonizing over deadlines and schedules. Moreover, a lack of self-confidence could cause you to be fairly conventional and respectful of time-honored ways. Instead, you should find the courage to question your convictions.
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