ArrDee is searching for stability; she wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for her life. But her efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, she is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time she reaches what she believes to be a good balance, she realizes she wants something entirely different. ArrDee would do well to become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.

You are sober and rather reserved, and people may even think you’re harsh and austere. You were raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety, and as a result, you grew up very fast. You’ve acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency and can be rather uncompromising. You also have a touchy sense of your personal dignity and worth. It almost seems as though you’re fighting an inner battle with your father or a father figure. The psychological models you received from your father or a father figure due to your interaction and your own interaction with authority may not have played a major role in shaping your relationships with the outer world and society. So you may have had to compensate for this with individual determination. As a result, although you’re skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, you sometimes feel timid and hesitant. You sometimes feel as though you’re only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. You tend to be far too critical of yourself, and you rarely feel satisfied that you’re living up to your ideal. These unnecessary guilt feelings may lead you to turn down the prominent career positions for which you’re fully qualified. You’re aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile, and that time rewards those who know how to be patient and persistent, like you.

You are an individualist who holds dear the values of freedom and independence. You have rejected the constraints of social conventions and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions can sometimes clash with your relationships, as you are an uncompromising partner. You may find that you need to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people. If you do not do this, you are likely to be embroiled in conflicting relationships. The roots of your behavior may lie in your relationships with your father or teachers when you were younger. In every important life decision, you must rely on yourself to determine the appropriate behavior and set limits on your desires.

ArrDee values freedom and independence above all else. She expends a great deal of energy to ensure that her private life expresses these values. To avoid being tied down, she tends to be skittish when it comes to any profound involvement in a relationship. As a consequence, she might intellectualize her emotions and feelings and feel as though she can live more easily on friendship than on love. Extremely socially-minded but idealistic, she almost certainly feels an affinity with the ideals of some social reform movement. Her imagination looks to the future.

ArrDee has a lively and curious intelligence, the very opposite of empty rhetoric and studiousness. She is agile and adaptable and can not only analyze difficult situations objectively but also demonstrate a profound comprehension when faced with a psychological problem.

ArrDee maintains strong ties with their past, and it often seems difficult for them to open their heart to new people. Their love affairs might exist on the surface level, because their lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for them to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.

ArrDee has a sensitive personality. She may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. She is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in her behavior may be explained by emotional problems she may have experienced in infancy: her mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.

ArrDee is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find ArrDee generous almost to a fault! ArrDee gives of herself and her resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when ArrDee is self-focused. ArrDee reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and is prone to misjudge. As a result, ArrDee’s everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, ArrDee senses a conflict between ArrDee’s social life and ArrDee’s family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill ArrDee in both spheres at the same time. ArrDee’s attitude toward ArrDee’s private life may inhibit ArrDee’s ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on ArrDee’s private life. ArrDee should be careful not to project ArrDee’s personal problems onto her partner. If, instead, the two of them analyzed the problem, they might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.

Due to your extreme sensitivity and irrepressible imagination, you sometimes have trouble distinguishing dreams from reality. Although your bubbling imagination provides an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it tends to be less helpful and positive in matters that concern your self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient. Although your psychic faculties drive you to fulfill yourself through artistic activities like painting, drawing, music, or poetry, it may be difficult for you to market your talents in terms of a career. In a relationship, you are extremely romantic and do not always see others the way they really are. Because of your tendency to idealize people, you may be disappointed when their true natures are eventually betrayed.

ArrDee’s attractions are usually immediate and intense. They rise quickly to fever pitch. The story of these passions is often dramatic to excess, combining all the plot elements of a classic love tragedy: jealousy, possessiveness, agony as an erotic stimulant, etc.

ArrDee’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

ArrDee is Romantic and idealistic although inhibited in love, seeking the impossible. Although your love life may be marked by disappointments, you will never ignore your imagination. Your ideal of independence may nevertheless be frustrated by the constraints inherent to married life.

ArrDee falls in love with a jealous, possessive person who will probably have a great influence on her.

You are characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive you to seek pleasure. Your need for romantic fulfillment may compel you to marry, because you also seek the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that you had indeed achieved success. However, privately, you might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, you might deny the commitments that your optimism and expansiveness made you rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting your romantic nature against the prerogatives of your career.

You have a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. You are emotive and hypersensitive, making you especially vulnerable emotionally, since you are sometimes overwhelmed by your feelings and affects. Although you seek an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom you could maintain blissful, smooth relations, you are sometimes met with disillusionment. Because your rather excessive sensitivity and your need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge your judgment and discernment, so you sometimes form extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When you meet someone, you fall under the enchantment of your dream of ideal love and cannot keep yourself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, you yield to another of your characteristic urges and lose yourself in the individual who is so dear to you, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find yourself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, your psyche is constructed in such a way as to make your sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before you take on any major commitments, you should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates your intense love, for you may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Your tendency to believe in your illusions may mark you as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for you to find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you tend to be so disappointed by your great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of your imagination procure artistic refinement for you, and you love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because your sensitivity also makes it easy for you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with, you might also find it rewarding to commit yourself to social work.

ArrDee’s mental aptitudes make her especially good at comparing, evaluating, and weighing information. This intellectual modus operandi has enabled her to develop an innate sense of values, both artistic and ethical, as well as a remarkable ability to relate to other people. Her appreciative, conciliatory attitude makes her a skillful diplomat able to untangle conflict situations deftly and with ease. In other situations, her artistic spirit is sensitive to a wide variety of harmonies.

ArrDee does not express her thoughts and ideas smoothly or easily. She tends to be subjective, seeking to know herself better through a process of introversion.

ArrDee’s intellectual faculties and wit are sometimes slowed down because they are turned outward. Because ArrDee tends to be oriented toward others, she rarely try to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. Indeed, ArrDee sometimes feels misunderstood. Moreover, it seems difficult to ArrDee to express the complexity of her inner perceptions.

ArrDee has a great deal of intuition, but sometimes has problems organizing her thoughts and making an intellectual commitment. The concepts of boundary and structure are inimical to her mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. Her thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. She tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, she can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although her perceptions are lively and subtle, she may display a kind of absent-mindedness, out of a fear of annoying people with her shrewdness or of fighting to assert herself. Her imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.