If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Amber Marshall knows that she has to be sincere if she wants to make real progress and she won’t be content just to coast along on her natural talents. She’s not indifferent to the opportunity to grow and change, so she’ll be willing to put in the hard work necessary to achieve her goals. And she’s not afraid to take risks – she’s always looking for ways to broaden her horizons and experience new things.
Amber Marshall sometimes feels a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.
For Amber Marshall, healthy emotional development will require a conscious adaptation, because she is still the captive of sensations which have never been clarified, and, as a result, her sensitivity cannot really blossom fully. Although she seeks close relationships and intimacy with people she trusts to give her love and support, she sometimes feels alienated from other people and may withdraw into a remote bubble. Were she to open herself fully to the world of relations with others, by the means of continual, subtle changes, she could prepare herself for a total metamorphosis of her destiny. Both her sensitivity and her relationships would have access to a new path, more altruistic, open, and dedicated to others.