If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the strengths which may be helping you progress and achieve your goals:- your passion for learning- your determination- your creativity- your resilience- your adaptability
You sometimes struggle with the conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable and secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas, but sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only fooling yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.
Alyssalivee may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.
As people often do, you were born with great sensitivity and aspirations. However, your delicate spirit sometimes can’t handle the challenges of life. You see practical reality as meaningless and empty, and you often escape into your own fantasy world. This gives you the illusion of a greater reward, but it also makes you vulnerable to people who are dishonest. You would do well to be more selective about who you associate with, and to focus on the things that are important to you in life.