If Alvin Chong wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution. His continual need for security, tendency to escape into fantasy, hunger for approval, longing for the past, and fear of the future are all potential weaknesses which could be holding him back. He could work on addressing these weaknesses by becoming more aware of them and working to improve them.
You sometimes struggle to find a balance between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and often find it difficult to reconcile their demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance, but no job promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only fooling yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.
Alvin Chong, you may experience discord in relationships. Although you are friendly and outgoing and commit yourself to friendships and partnerships, you often find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.
Alvin Chong reacts peremptorily to all opposition and will brook no contradiction. His desires are sometimes imperious, and he expresses them impulsively, by fits and starts, which may elicit resentment and antagonism in his partners. Life will force him to set more universal goals and centers of interest for himself. It would be a good idea for him to release some excess internal tension through physical exercise.
Alvin Chong tends to be restless and impatient. His dissatisfaction sometimes compels him to launch himself into an energetic effort to transform society. Because he has the ability to conceive of fairly radical models for social change, he sometimes demonstrates a desire to spearhead a progressive movement. However, his determination to impose his own ideas forcefully could turn off people he is so eager to help. He will do well to realize that only a transpersonal vision of the world (that is, a vision which transcends his own personal ego problems) is appropriate nourishment for the archetypes which could bring about a real transformation and improvement of social structures.
Alvin Chong is self-focused and has difficulty cooperating with others. This can lead to conflict in relationships. Alvin Chong is certain that he is destined for success and can be impulsive, which can lead to resentment in others. Alvin Chong would do well to meditate on the concepts of authority and individualism.
Alvin Chong can be hypersensitive and easily offended, although he frequently changes his opinion and doesn’t hold a grudge. He abhorred conflict and was a good listener. His key to self-improvement will be learning to control his impressionability.