What does Alexis Oakley’s psychology tell us about them?

Alexis Oakley is determined to obtain a superlative grip on her emotional urges; she practices holding back her impulses and controlling them. Although it is not an easy apprenticeship, she wants to be able to bear strain with patience, endurance, and stamina. More than anyone else, she is aware of the need for a solid and stable foundation as a prerequisite to any effective action.

You have a paternal complex, which can lead you to some trouble finding your identity. Perhaps your father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during your childhood, which deprived you of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because you might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to you as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with your evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber your mind or inhibit your developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for you to assert yourself, and you tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because your authoritarian urges are mainly directed at yourself rather than others, you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself severely, and sometimes punishes yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

At the moment of your birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This is a portent of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes which is extremely beneficial. It is the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms which may be said to compose the personality. You thus enjoy a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to you, and it is likely that they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you were and are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images your ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.

Alexis Oakley has a taste for luxury and magnificence, for a dazzling social life and a distinguished career. When things are going well for her, she tends to think of herself as the center of the universe, an attitude that those close to her do not always appreciate. Although she is quite likely to succeed in her ambition to become wealthy and popular and lead a remarkable life in the outer world, her lack of moderation and overweening self-confidence expose her to some danger. Her exaggerated optimism could create difficulties for her by causing her to make errors in judgment.

You are an accomplished and successful lawyer, although you may often come across as stern and uncompromising to those who first meet you. You were raised in an atmosphere of strict discipline and sobriety, and as a result you grew up quickly and acquired a spirit of self-reliance. You are skillful, meticulous, and conscientious, but you lack self-confidence and personal assurance, which can sometimes make you timid and hesitant. You are aware that early success is often fleeting and can easily be lost, so you are often very patient and persistent.

Although Alexis Oakley tries to keep a tight grip on her emotions, she has a very appetite for intense emotional thrills and is sometimes upset by them. Feelings of insecurity may keep her from expressing her emotions, and she tends at times to become jealous or possessive of the person she loves. The force of her emotional drives is intense and especially evident when she has been wounded in some way in the course of a love affair, or if she feels as though someone, a friend or lover, has betrayed her. She has a tendency to be masochistic and thrive on suffering. She may abandon herself to her emotional fears and trifle with her inner vulnerability.

You are an individualist who believes in freedom and independence as the most basic of values. You have thrown off the social constraints of your class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions can sometimes cause problems in your relationships, as you are uncompromising in your beliefs. You need to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people. If you do not do this, you are likely to find yourself in conflict with others frequently. The roots of your behavior may be related to your relationship with your father or teachers when you were young. For some reason, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, and in the same way, you are now refusing to adopt any values related to convention, tradition, or widespread usage. In every important decision you make as an adult, you rely on yourself to develop the appropriate behavior. And, as with all important decisions, you have to impose limits on your own desires in order to deal with reality and the law.

Alexis Oakley usually keeps her emotions in check and avoids situations where she might have to express them. This is because she feels like she didn’t get enough love in her life, which has caused her to be inhibited in her relationships. She puts all her energy into her career and wants to be recognized by her friends.

Although your exterior does not reveal it, you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. It is difficult for your inner self to be detached from this past life, and you sometimes have trouble reconciling the image you have of yourself as an adult with the one you acquired back then. The idea you have of yourself as an individual is related to the image your parents projected onto you as a child. Nevertheless, the past is history, and you are now an adult. It should be easy for you to rid yourself of these phantoms through self-work. You have the ability to overcome your mistakes and great endurance and will power to achieve your goals. However, you must not repress your sensitivity in order to succeed.

Alexis Oakley tries to gain approval from others by showing that she is worthy of their affection. Nevertheless, her pessimism remains, and the severe taboos she unconsciously places on herself sometimes keep her from developing quickly.

Alexis Oakley is sometimes afraid to love. The world of her feelings is characterized by a certain chill and restraint. But she is not unfeeling; on the contrary, her sensitivity is so delicate that she is careful to protect it. Her determination to maintain control of her feelings and force her emotions to obey the laws of reason may stand in the way of intimacy and joy.

Alexis Oakley’s birth chart indicates that she has an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. She distrusts her emotional urges and tends to be wary of her feelings, trying to rid herself of all partiality and get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

Alexis Oakley is a person who is comfortable in the workplace but not so much in love. Her desire to progress and her taste for power give her wings, but she knows that she can’t stay repressed indefinitely and that she will only be truly happy if she has an intimate bond with someone.

Alexis Oakley is sensible and level-headed on the outside, but on the inside she dreams of a devoted admirer who will carry her off, far from home and who, most of all, will cure her latent emotional depression. But real life is more mundane and she may end up with a partner who won’t share the burden of practical constraints and responsibilities and chases after adventure. Maturity will help her to make a second relationship a happier one.

Alexis Oakley has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of her main purposes in life. Her personal charm and magnetism give her nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of her well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of her desires. Due to her impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, her approach to members of the other sex may sometimes lack delicacy.

Alexis Oakley

Alexis Oakley tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. Her thoughts are usually structured, and her reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.

Alexis Oakley has a great deal of intuition but sometimes has problems organizing her thought processes and making an intellectual commitment. The concepts of boundary and structure are inimical to her mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. Her thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. She tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, she can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although her perceptions are lively and subtle, she may display a kind of absent-mindedness, out of a fear of annoying people with her shrewdness or of fighting to assert herself. Her imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.

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