Adamkindacool searches for stability, but its elusive nature frustrates him. Every time he seems to find a measure of equilibrium, he realizes that he desires something else. Life is an ever-changing dance, and he should embrace that fact instead of trying to find a static equilibrium.
Adamkindacool has a difficult time finding its identity because it didn’t have a father figure during its childhood. This deprived Adamkindacool of the patterns and models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because Adamkindacool lacked a paternal presence, it had to protect itself against negative influences and find its own system in order to grow and feel secure. Adamkindacool’s system was quite useful to it as a child, but it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with its evolution. Adamkindacool’s psychological defense mechanisms and crutches were once useful, but now they encumber its mind or inhibit its developmental efforts. As a result, Adamkindacool sometimes has a difficult time asserting itself, and it tends to remain an awkward or passive observer. Adamkindacool judges itself severely, and sometimes punishes itself by setting difficult tasks for itself. Gradually, Adamkindacool should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
At the moment of your birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This was a sign of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes and it was extremely beneficial. It was the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms which composed your personality. You thus enjoyed a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to you, and it was likely that they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you were and are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony was that the images your ego projected on the other were especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship were not felt to be constraints, the energy which flowed between the two people was a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts were projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.
Adamkindacool is affectionate by nature and loves playing a decisive and central role in their life. They are a charmer who needs to love and be loved and aware of their personal magnetism and the power it gives them, they will make subtle changes in themselves in order to attract positive attention. They are sophisticated and pleased to savor a lifestyle they see as a consummate art.
Adamkindacool is winning and attractive. They have an appetite for intense emotional experiences, especially in terms of their relationships. Enjoying the power of their personal appeal, they easily control their emotions and only rarely reveal the true depth of their feelings. Because their instincts take precedence over their sensitivity, they are capable of becoming jealous, possessive, and even rather harsh, without meaning to. More of a flirt than a voluptuary, they are attentive to desire. As a result, their love life will sometimes be casual and complicated.
Adamkindacool has a sensitive nature. Although they may sometimes have trouble controlling their emotional reactions, they are nevertheless a source of vital energy for a constructive passion and may make an extremely positive contribution to their career. In relations with other people, they are quite friendly; they willingly reach out to people and know how to listen to their desires and their problems.
Adamkindacool is emotionally reactive and sensitive, tending to act impulsively and excessively when their independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are threatened. Although they believe that their values of independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are essential, Adamkindacool sometimes feels frustrated by the need to rely on family and friends. Additionally, they do not always grant the freedom of others the same level of respect as their own. Likewise, they can be angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if they fear it will doom them to dependency. Adamkindacool’s ambivalent behavior is the result of their relationship with their mother or a mother figure. Although they were dependent on them, they may have rejected Adamkindacool. As a result, Adamkindacool now extends this dependency to any situation in which their sensitivity is involved. To avoid feelings of dependency, Adamkindacool often resorts to destructive behavior. Based on denial, their reactions are often fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Adamkindacool is sometimes afraid to love. The world of his feelings is characterized by a certain chill and restraint. But he is not unfeeling; on the contrary, his sensitivity is so delicate that he is careful to protect it. His determination to maintain control of his feelings and force his emotions to obey the laws of reason may stand in the way of intimacy and joy.
Adamkindacool’s birth chart indicates that they have an emotional function that is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. They enjoy reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with their gaze riveted on the future, Adamkindacool is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Adamkindacool, outwardly inhibited, is subject to powerful and upsetting inner passions. Usually, their emotional life is rough sailing. They are more comfortable with their career, where their desire to progress and their taste for power give them wings, but they scare away most men with their demands and harshness. They will have to admit that their emotions cannot be repressed indefinitely.
Adamkindacool thinks long and hard about what kind of partner they would like. They want someone who is loyal, understanding, and passionate. Someone who can make them feel loved and appreciated. But in the end, they realize that life is too short to waste on someone who isn’t going to make their dreams a reality. They’ll settle for someone who is stable and reliable, someone who can make them feel at ease.
Adamkindacool has a flexible intellect that draws on flashes of intuition as well as logical and rational thought. They have progressive and sometimes utopian ideas that relate to human or social problems. They always strive to be in the vanguard, creating a better world for the future.
Adamkindacool tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
Adamkindacool has a structured mind and penetrating intelligence, but his thought processes tend to be somewhat plodding. This slow pace may be the consequence of some failure or humiliation during his formative years. He is fairly inhibited and pessimistic and tends to doubt in himself and his intellectual skills despite his undeniable gifts as a thinker. He should become aware that his thought patterns and habits are the sign that he is on the brink of a really big breakthrough which will give him an understanding of the complexity of things and phenomena; however, it will take time and effort. His mind is deep and accurate and is attracted by the essence of things and their fundamental structure. As a result, he is particularly suited to the study of mathematics, architecture, engineering, or perhaps even politics. His contribution to society will probably be most lasting and effective in the field of knowledge and expertise. Whatever career he chooses, he should learn to work alone, because he tends to be uncomfortable in some surroundings. He will also have to learn to conquer his impatience, because he tends to waste time agonizing over deadlines and schedules. Moreover, a lack of self-confidence could cause him to be fairly conventional and respectful of time-honored ways. Instead, he should find the courage to question his convictions.
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